A women's life changes almost fully when she bring a baby to the world. Remember, all the new moms whom you know. And you will get what I am trying to say. She does not have much knowledge about the baby problems and because of that she have to bother more.
So, there is something I'm going to share with you so that you can understand everything well.
In spite of being bothered, every parent should try to understand and recognize certain signs like fatigue, hunger, pain or just "hold meeeeee" whimpers.
Nothing can be better than breastfeeding for your baby at least for six months. Seriously, Moms have ready made milk, perfect temperature, perfect consistency, perfect everything right there, anytime, anywhere. With formula, there's definitely more work involved. Nurses at maternity wards should definitely insist on this aspect if they want to convince moms to breastfeed.
Nothing can be better than that. Sleep with your baby so closely that he feel your warmth and feel safe there. But you should avoid sleep with him if you are drunk.
Whenever he/she cries just pick up in your lap and try to pamper him/her. You, will see the baby will definitely calm down and will feel far better.
You are a mother, you should take care of your baby. No matter how much you are busy somewhere and what are you facing at that point of time your baby should be your only priority.