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IN People ON 06 Oct, 2015
We all dream of falling in love. It is the passion, the romance & the desire that forms the intertwined world of love. However, that’s not all this emotion has to offer. It is a paradox which also opens the door of frustration inside each one of us. But, is this frustration necessary for getting complete satisfaction in love?
Let's find out.
Love – doesn't it bring a smile on our face? But, what about the desperation, anticipation, longing and disappointment that follows?
Not only getting indulged in the romantic fantasy land, but some amount of frustration is necessary to refine the truth in the relationship of love.
When we embrace the world of love, it is not only the person itself. We also include the fantasy of love we have always imagined of. It is the combination of both, that creates the reality.
Love evokes the feeling of frustration which we often don't know exists within us. It is recognition of missing something whose absence was not recognized. It is a paradox which brings forth the intense feeling of frustration of desiring someone and then satisfaction from the same.
We always dream about the person who will claim our heart. But when we get involved in an actual relationship, then we start familiarizing that person with the man/ woman of our dreams. At times, we recognize them without any problem, but at other times they appear quite foreign. Thus, we enter the cycle of loving a familiar foreigner.
Fantasy of love and its frustration always goes hand-in-hand. It's our passion to locate the unknown in a known and vice versa that make things intriguing and beautiful.