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IN Lifestyle ON 02 Aug, 2015
For every single person out there is a scope of getting hooked with someone only if you have a smartphone. Tinder can be the reason for your future relationship. The popular iPhone app that has been recently also released in Android provides you the easy way to date online. The app is operated on the basis of your Facebook social network. It tries to set you up with your friends of friends. Tinder has little, but it's utterly fantastic. You can just put four pictures of yours in your profile and can only reply "yes" or "no" to people who are not on your list. If you both says "yes" then only you can message each other. Tinder might be little confusing for some people, so here we have listed some simple tips that can help you get a perfect date.
Set some criteria that you are looking for. If you are not going to do that at first place, then you are probably not going to get any results. Always try to be honest with yourself then only start your conversation with new people.
When you create an account on Tinder, the app might choose the profile picture from your Facebook account. Well, this may be not correct. You have to choose your picture very wisely as it creates extremely high impact. People will only choose you from your profile picture so make your decision wisely while choosing the pictures.
Never use shirtless/abs pictures as girls are creeped out from such pictures. Well, no selfies too, always try to put pictures that are taken by someone else. You can put pictures with your friends hanging around that may create your cool impact on the other person. Even don't try to showcase your personality by your Linked-In shirt-and-tie picture.
Put your picture on the main picture. It is quite easy for girls to get guys through online dating. Don't ever put a main picture with friends. If you are going to put the main picture in a bikini, then you are going to get tons of matches from all kinds of men. Well, this is also a problem as you will not get the compatible partner. Put something that highlights your personality for a compatible partner.
You have to write a couple of lines that will appear on your profile. Never put that space blank and even don't take that too seriously. Think something clever that defines you and your personality.
If you have found your match, firstly congratulations. In online dating, it is seen that the guys have to message first. If a woman takes an initiative, he will be pleased and flattered. And yes, if you have found your match then don't immediately message the person, wait for two-three hours. Always keep in your mind that Tinder is a fun app, so your messages should not be too straight or too monotonous.
After sending a lot of messages finally, you have got a match. Never approach someone for going out in first few messages, this can make them think that you are too desperate. Enjoy chatting for three-four days so that you can know that your interest is not losing in that person. If all goes well, then you may ask your match on a date.
Online daters have a high flake-rate. If your match is too nervous or double dating then your date may be cancel at last minute. Always be prepared. People always value the commitments given to known person than the unknown one. If things repeat then don't set up any more dates.
#Rule 1: Never let your friends know that you are dating their friends through Tinder.
#Rule 2: Tinder is not a hookup app, so don't assume much.
#Rule 3: You can be addictive to the app, so you must know when to stop.
#Rule 4: Always take some precautions before going out with someone on a date. You are meeting an unknown person so prefer your dates at restaurants, cafes or parks.
#Rule 5: Tinder is a picture based app, if you feel cheated because of the misleading picture then directly say "no" and don't feel bad about rejecting them.