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IN Lifestyle ON 15 Jul, 2015
Reading a guy, come on, that's no rocket science. They are not girls after all. Girls are complicated, guys are not.
That's what people say. However, easy it may sound, the whole process of 'knowing' a guy may take months.
But, with right attitude and clues, you don't have to date him for six months to get the lowdown on who he really is. If you pay some attention you can size him up in ten minutes.
Yes, girls, You can thank me later.
Will the frog turn into a prince or not? Let us search for clues.
If he avoids making eye contact during the conversation; he may not be trustworthy. Meanwhile, if you find his eyes bore into you, don't get nervous because that is exactly what he is trying to do, knowingly or unknowingly. But a smoldering gaze, lucky girl.
The usual burger and fries or chef's special guy is steady and dependable, but a little unadventurous. While, the guy who orders all the exotic dishes with weird names which he has never tried, you got yourself a spontaneous man who could easily get bored with the status quo.
As they say, Birds of the same feather flock together. If you know his friends, you know him. And if his friendship dates back to the ice age, you got yourself a loyal one.
Whether he is a lone wolf, or a howling pack. Mr. Center of attention might be fun to hang out with, but his constant craving for attention signals that your needs might get neglected. And if he is a loner, he might need some time to come out of his shell and will be happier spending some quality time with you.
Your rugged jeans and his hoodie? or the black backless dress you wore yesterday? The choice is between a laid back, down to earth guy or a guy who places a lot of value on being admired and envied.
Eldest is usually the most matured one, ready to carry all the responsibilities, the take-charge kind of guy. The youngest one being a bit rebellious. As for the middle man, he's totally an attention seeker and sensitive too, in his own way.
Guys who use card are practical, confident and ambitious. The one who always pays in cash is calculating and sensible. He is the one who always plans in advance.
If he refuses to do so, this doesn't mean that he considers himself the dominating one. He is actually from the old school. He will pamper you and spoil you with all his love. If he is glad you are splitting the bill, he believes in equality and is attracted to independent self sufficient women. And some like to take turns, that is even more fun. Its a way of being equal without the awkwardness of splitting checks.
Boys can get quite sensitive when it comes to sit in the driving seat. They are totally in love with their beasts or babies. If he has no issues regarding you driving, you have got yourself an equal.
PDAs displays your status of togetherness. If he is all over you when you are out in public, he is either showing you off or marking his territory. Both of which are strong signs of insecurity. But a guy, who keeps too much distance is unsure of his feelings towards her. A perfect balance of both we wish for.