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IN Lifestyle ON 30 Jun, 2015
If you are an unhappy single, here is something for you.
Have you ever pointed out a couple on the streets and wondered how the hell a guy like him scored her or vice-versa!
If yes, give your thoughts a second thought.
Possibilities are that you might be doing certain things which are responsible for keeping you away from the 'in a relationship' status. Let's just help you do a few little things right and then you will be either a happy single or in a happy relationship!
You think you are not ready. Yes, breaking up is hard. All those memories, good or bad, pain, anger, resentment or fear won't go away in a day. But you will have to work towards it. Carrying these negative emotions with you will only serve to make it harder for you to meet someone new.
Are you one of those people who strongly believe that 'What goes around comes back around' Do you think that you don't deserve to be happy because of the mistakes you made in your previous relationships. May be it does come back, maybe karma really is a bitch, but this shouldn't stop you from trying. Everybody deserves to be happy, you just have to learn from your mistakes and move on.
Confidence is the key to success, my friend! Be comfortable in your own skin and never ever think twice before speaking your heart and mind.
It happens too often. Take all the time in the world, then decide and act accordingly.
and excuses are lame.
Until and unless you learn to be comfortable in your skin and happy with yourself, a happy relationship is a distant dream. You don't find love, it finds you. And you won't get it when you need it, but when you deserve it.
Let's be honest, perfection exists only in fairy tales. Real life is complicated and messy and you are not perfect either.
Sometimes singles can reek of desperation, and nobody likes that smell. Are you one of them?
Setting standards is good, but ensure that your standards don't get in the way of a good guy or gal.
Fair enough. But then, why are you reading this ;)