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Ten Awful Things You Are Doing That Are Keeping You Single

If you are an unhappy single, here is something for you.
Have you ever pointed out a couple on the streets and wondered how the hell a guy like him scored her or vice-versa!

If yes, give your thoughts a second thought. 

Possibilities are that you might be doing certain things which are responsible for keeping you away from the 'in a relationship' status. Let's just help you do a few little things right and then you will be either a happy single or in a happy relationship!

 

Ten Awful Things You Are Doing That Are Keeping You Single

Ten Awful Things You Are Doing That Are Keeping You Single

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What is it that is keeping you single? Let's find out.

What is it that is keeping you single? Let's find out.

1. You are holding on to your last break up

1. You are holding on to your last break up

You think you are not ready. Yes, breaking up is hard. All those memories, good or bad, pain, anger, resentment or fear won't go away in a day. But you will have to work towards it. Carrying these negative emotions with you will only serve to make it harder for you to meet someone new.

2. You think you don't deserve a relationship

2. You think you don't deserve a relationship

Are you one of those people who strongly believe that 'What goes around comes back around' Do you think that you don't deserve to be happy because of the mistakes you made in your previous relationships. May be it does come back, maybe karma really is a bitch, but this shouldn't stop you from trying. Everybody deserves to be happy, you just have to learn from your mistakes and move on.

3. You think you are not good enough

3. You think you are not good enough

Confidence is the key to success, my friend! Be comfortable in your own skin and never ever think twice before speaking your heart and mind.

4. You have no idea what you really want

4. You have no idea what you really want

It happens too often. Take all the time in the world, then decide and act accordingly.

5. You use timing as an excuse

5. You use timing as an excuse

and excuses are lame.

6. You are unhappy with yourself

6. You are unhappy with yourself

Until and unless you learn to be comfortable in your skin and happy with yourself, a happy relationship is a distant dream. You don't find love, it finds you. And you won't get it when you need it, but when you deserve it.

7. You have high, unreasonable, out of a fairy-tale expectations

7. You have high, unreasonable, out of a fairy-tale expectations

Let's be honest, perfection exists only in fairy tales. Real life is complicated and messy and you are not perfect either.

8. You are a desperate dater

8. You are a desperate dater

Sometimes singles can reek of desperation, and nobody likes that smell. Are you one of them?

9. You are too picky

9. You are too picky

Setting standards is good, but ensure that your standards don't get in the way of a good guy or gal.

10. You think you are probably better off alone

10. You think you are probably better off alone

Fair enough. But then, why are you reading this ;)

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