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IN Lifestyle ON 29 Jun, 2015
We always believe in saying that my past love life wasn't fruitful. It was a complete waste. It was time pass and nothing else. But, let me correct you. Your ex-girlfriend wasn't your biggest mistake you think. It is our nature to learn from our mistakes and not repeat it again in future.
Ask yourself few questions.
Didn't you become a better person after being familiar to her?
Didn't you become emotionally intelligent and caring person then you were before?
You won't believe, but her charm has indirectly made you a better positive person and taught you lessons which are very important in life to understand. Do share with us other life lessons which your ex-girlfriend taught you.
Guys need to understand that they need not to wait for the biggest moments of their life. It's the joy of small moments that nurture our life.
Life gets ugly and guys don't get this fact until they are dumped. You need to face the challenges and fight the odds and come out to be a stronger person.
Feeling insecurity can ruin your relation as well as can disturb your work and life too. Make sure you aren't into it.
Boosting your self-esteem and working as per your priorities will always encourage you to maintain a healthy relation plus balancing your work life with it. Make sure you tell your priorities to your partner.
Falling in love is most amazing feeling you can ever experience. But falling for anything can disintegrate your life. Well, sometimes people take you for granted. Bitter truth!
Stalking her friends can ruin your image and can lead you to lose your value and then there will be fair chances that you will be the next topic about their gossip sessions. Make sure you do not repeat this mistake again.
There is cut line difference between convincing and manipulating. We convince our family members, friends and the ones who are close to us, but we manipulate with the thoughts of others. Well, whatever it is, we have practiced every trick on our EX-GF.
Kicking off your deep buried frustration is a good thing. But, it can end your relation if you aren't happy and angry with your partner. Same applies to life.
If you have a weak memory of forgetting every small and important thing it's better to use reminders and sticky notes or else her pet will ruin your relation.
Arguing leads you to make your girlfriend, your ex. Make sure you understand life's view ahead.
Spending less time with her reveals the emotional bonding you share with your partner. Leaders pursue high emotional intelligence quality. Make sure you practice with your lover.
No demands, no complaints is the girly line which she loves to say. Bullshit! is all what she is saying we think in our mind then. But as per life's view, it's hard to say but, she is correct. We need not to be too demanding for anything. Yeah, we need to chase for what we want.
We need to understand the importance of right things at the right place and at the right time. Till then, keep patience. After all, in love life you need to be patient.
Life will always reward you with the evil ones. Trusting them is inviting everyone to make your fun and befooling.
Okay, being possessive for her is good. But you need to understand and give her space too. Calling her, her pals, family impatiently can surely switch her mood in aggression. Remember not to do this in your present life now.
Girls love those guys more who confess their mistakes. Apologizing your mistakes gives you more self-satisfaction in your life. It's hard to say Sorry and mean it but at the end of your day, you will feel happy.
Life always offers us new challenges at every step. Facing them and fighting against odds is all we have learnt since our love times.