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10 Things Men Fear About Sex

Sometimes, his lusty instincts are replaced with the anxiety and insecurity. The fear is all about his performance in bed. Men are obviously loud and confident in bed than women, but they are also not far from the sexual concerns that leave them with unbearable stress. And the result is, he becomes his own enemy. Sexual desires, performance, enjoyment all these aspects start fading. For all guys, it is necessary to know the concerns that are consuming them.

Here are the sexual fears that the majority of men have. 

10 Things Men Fear About Sex

10 Things Men Fear About Sex

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Talking about your fears might solve them.

Talking about your fears might solve them.

1. Fear of losing an erection.

1. Fear of losing an erection.

As discussed earlier, many of the things are far from the reality, and they are nothing more than fear. Many men suffer from the fear of impotence. Research shows 90% of such cases are psychogenic. The obsessive thoughts of losing pleasures just ruin your happy moments. It is better to concentrate on her and make the best use of your time.

2. He worries about his size.

2. He worries about his size.

It is a common issue, many men fear about the size of their penis. They think the smaller size of penis makes them less manly, and an unsatisfied partner. The normal size of penis i.e. five inches is enough to have a fulfilling sex life. The truth is a woman does not measure her satisfaction with her man's size. Guys, you must not forget that, if there is love pleasure doubles.

3. He frets if time gets over.

3. He frets if time gets over.

During the bed job, many men fear that he is going to release too soon, or he will take too long. The over consciousness of success or failure leaves them in a dilemma. If you are disturbed by the issue of early or late ejaculation, consult a sexologist as soon as possible. And if it is a psychological problem more than physical, just try to overcome the fear.

4. He fears not finding her attractive.

4. He fears not finding her attractive.

Men do worry if they find their partner unattractive next morning. If your expression of love flourishes only when you are drunk, this is not good for you both.

5. He panics if he's a desperate lover.

5. He panics if he's a desperate lover.

Sometimes, he is a wild passionate lover. And in the excitement of the moment he fails to understand what his partner wants. He fails to perceive that there are many other things that she expects from him, more than sex. When he comes to face the reality, he is shattered.

6. Fear of getting her pregnant.

6. Fear of getting her pregnant.

Most of the young guys fear that she might get pregnant or suffer from STD. It is easy to overcome this fear. Make sure you adopt safety measures to avoid the risk. Let your partner know about your fears, it's important to talk about it.

7. Fear of disappointing her.

7. Fear of disappointing her.

Sometimes, you might find yourself swinging in fantasy. It is obvious to have thoughts of satisfying her fullest but if the fear of disappointing her starts ruling over your mind, the result might be horrible. Avoid unrealistic expectations from yourself. Make sure you have more sexual conversations with her. That works!

8. Fear of not being normal.

8. Fear of not being normal.

Many men worry if they are normal in bed acts or not. They get obsessed with the thoughts that she might find him abnormal. It is not good that you notice yourself being abnormal while having sex. If she enjoys the way you are, then there is no problem.

9. Fear of finding her interested in someone else.

9. Fear of finding her interested in someone else.

Relationships sustain on faith. Lacking trust in her and yourself, some men fear of losing girlfriend/wife and worry if she gets attracted towards someone else. The habit of comparing yourself with other men or the trouble of feeling inferior in satisfying her sexually is extremely harmful for both of you.

10. Fearing if she is excited to have sex or not.

10. Fearing if she is excited to have sex or not.

Of course, the interests and excitements towards sex vary. She might not be in the mood when you are. You may feel bad finding her not interested. Better to give her time and not to hurry.

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