11 Reasons Why Nice Guys Always Get Friendzoned

It always hurts to get friendzoned.

11 Reasons Why Nice Guys Always Get Friendzoned
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Getting friendzoned to the person of your dreams is a nightmare that can come true. It really sucks to get friendzoned by someone you had already imagined coochie cooing. It is disheartening when girls/guys make the person believe that they are interested in them, however, they aren't, and make them hang in there with little or no hope at all.

Is it always that you get into that zone, yet too often, or maybe, always? There are definitely things that will make sure you won't fall into that sad friendzone trap again. We feel you and therefore, have jotted down as to why you may have been friendzoned in the encounters you might have had. Take a look and let us know if they sound true for your case. 

1. You always try to pretty please her.

1. You always try to pretty please her.

Don't live your life trying to please her. Don't try to over-impress, rather, be yourself. Stop agreeing to everything she says and have your own identity and opinions. Show her that you are not a friend material but a person who can be called a partner-in-crime.

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2. You are so nice that she comes to you only when she needs you.

2. You are so nice that she comes to you only when she needs you.
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She only comes to you when she has a fight with her boyfriend and never shows her face other than that. If this is the situation you are in, then please step out of it. It will not be the easiest thing to do but, hey, it will any day be better than getting friendzoned. 

3. You tend to be a coward.

3. You tend to be a coward.
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Get on with some healthy flirting with her. Don't forget always to maintain a line that does not need to cross or else you might get into the "creepy zone" for sure. Make the right move at the right time and see things change for themselves. 

4. You always give the benefit of the doubt. 

4. You always give the benefit of the doubt. 
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Most of the times, the guys tend to keep giving away too much for the benefit of the doubt to a girl. This will just keep happening, and in some time, this will also be taken as an advantage by the girl.

5. You always give those unwanted advices. 

5. You always give those unwanted advices. 
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We know that you are a nice guy and you feel the need to give your advice to others for their betterment, but really, no one needs another mother in their life.

6. You need to grow a spine.

6. You need to grow a spine.
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Maybe you get friendzoned all the time because you let yourself get into that zone without doing anything about it. Stop dreaming about getting everything on a platter by being nice to everyone. Open your eyes and fight for your rights. 

7. You are nice but maybe boring too.

7. You are nice but maybe boring too.
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Most of the nice guys tend to be boring to maintain their 'niceness' and missing out on how to be fun. Girls enjoy being with someone who can make them enjoy and have a good sense of humour. So, let yourself lose and play along. 

8. You are just too available.

8. You are just too available.
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Being too available can definitely make her believe that she can take you for granted. Also, she won't appreciate your presence anymore. Make yourself a little unavailable, maybe that might stir up things a little and make yourself a bit noticeable. 

9. You need to stop whining and get back in the game.

9. You need to stop whining and get back in the game.
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Stop whining about getting friendzoned and start working on it or leave it and move on while learning from it. Whining will also leave you depressed and you definitely do not want that. Right?

10. It's not about just love.

10. It's not about just love.
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Women out there do give a lot of importance to love, but also to the physical intimacy as well. Don't play a "good boy" always and try getting a bit naughty with her.

11. You are allowed to make mistakes.

11. You are allowed to make mistakes.
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Being nice and trying to do everything right might just be one of the reasons to be friendzoned. Make mistakes like anyone else.