What is she thinking? Wait, I should not have said that to anyone! And, Why didn't I wear that dress? Gosh, I am such an overthinker. I THINK A LOT AND IT NEVER HELPS!
Have you ever come across such kind of thoughts? If you have, I'm sure you know what overthinking is and this might not come as surprise to you that there are many around us who tend to think a lot. Considering this standard quality, which I also happen to possess, I decided to draft something that can help you find one around you.
These signs can help you figuring out if someone around you is an overthinker or not.
Okay, so people who have a habit of thinking too much always try to find meaning in anything possible. If you say something and that remains unexplained they are going to stress over it until things get sorted.
Saying one-liners or one word in front of them is equivalent to a criminal offense because then they will have to dig meaning from what you said. At which, overthinkers obviously suck!
Because sleeping time is the time when thoughts are raw, when they start to overflow from the mind and when epiphanic realisation hits the conscience.
People who think a lot often tend to feel that everything will eventually turn worse. The best way to overcome it is to find something that keeps them occupied.
Overthinkers are critical and emotional people. They tend to pour in a lot of time and effort to know where they might be right or wrong in a situation.
They will give their 100% to understand you even if they don't want to because these people are emotional and they want to know people better. What you say and what you do matters a lot to them.
That's is the best trait which I have come across in an overthinker. They try to make it a point that all the pros and cons of the situation have been addressed and what needs more of their attention.
Okay, now this can get irritating but people who have ever dated an overthinker will agree to me when I say that these people tend to assume a lot and most of the time it can be negative assumptions.
Taking a decision or a road not taken is very difficult for an overthinker. They just can't make a choice on their own, and that is what pulls them back all the time.
If you say 'I Love You' to an overthinker, their first reaction would be: "Why me?"
It is hard for them to accept things and hence they are always the ones to ask 'WHY'.
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