10 Signs That Show You Are Dating An Overthinker

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10 Signs That Show You Are Dating An Overthinker
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What is she thinking? Wait, I should not have said that to anyone! And, Why didn't I wear that dress? Gosh, I am such an overthinker. I THINK A LOT AND IT NEVER HELPS!

Have you ever come across such kind of thoughts? If you have, I'm sure you know what overthinking is and this might not come as surprise to you that there are many around us who tend to think a lot. Considering this standard quality, which I also happen to possess, I decided to draft something that can help you find one around you. 

These signs can help you figuring out if someone around you is an overthinker or not.  

#1 They try to find meaning in everything.

#1 They try to find meaning in everything.

Okay, so people who have a habit of thinking too much always try to find meaning in anything possible. If you say something and that remains unexplained they are going to stress over it until things get sorted. 

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#2 They detest one-word answers.

#2 They detest one-word answers.
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Saying one-liners or one word in front of them is equivalent to a criminal offense because then they will have to dig meaning from what you said. At which, overthinkers obviously suck!

#3 Sleeping is a struggle for them.

#3 Sleeping is a struggle for them.
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Because sleeping time is the time when thoughts are raw, when they start to overflow from the mind and when epiphanic realisation hits the conscience. 

#4 They fear the worse.

#4 They fear the worse.
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People who think a lot often tend to feel that everything will eventually turn worse. The best way to overcome it is to find something that keeps them occupied. 

#5 They think critically.

#5 They think critically.
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Overthinkers are critical and emotional people. They tend to pour in a lot of time and effort to know where they might be right or wrong in a situation. 

#6 They keep analysing people around them.

#6 They keep analysing people around them.
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They will give their 100% to understand you even if they don't want to because these people are emotional and they want to know people better. What you say and what you do matters a lot to them. 

#7 They weigh pros and cons in all situations. 

#7 They weigh pros and cons in all situations. 
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That's is the best trait which I have come across in an overthinker. They try to make it a point that all the pros and cons of the situation have been addressed and what needs more of their attention.

#8 They assume things easily.

#8 They assume things easily.
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Okay, now this can get irritating but people who have ever dated an overthinker will agree to me when I say that these people tend to assume a lot and most of the time it can be negative assumptions. 

#9 Making choices is not easy for them.

#9 Making choices is not easy for them.
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Taking a decision or a road not taken is very difficult for an overthinker. They just can't make a choice on their own, and that is what pulls them back all the time.

#10 They don't find themselves worthy of anything.

#10 They don't find themselves worthy of anything.
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If you say 'I Love You' to an overthinker, their first reaction would be: "Why me?" 

It is hard for them to accept things and hence they are always the ones to ask 'WHY'. 


If you have something to add to this list, you can tell us in the comment section below. 

You can also write to me at muskan@wittyfeed.com

Are you an overthinker?