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IN Lifestyle ON 06 Jun, 2015
We all enter into a relationship or a bond of marriage with the hope that it will be a loving and long lasting. A healthy relationship needs not only two people in love but also their efforts to understand each other, support each other and keep their bond unbreakable.
To make this bond unbreakable, you must know the following secrets about your partner to understand your partner better and just to be sure that you love a deserving person or not.
You must know if your partner was ever sexual abused. In all fairness towards you , your partner must tell you about any such experiences because you should know your mate from the core. Even if they have received the healing, you must be cautions about not hurting their sentiments.
You must know about your partner's past relationships, the duration of the relationships and the reasons for breaking up. These things might help you understand your partner better. This might also give you a hint about how seriously they take you or if they are just passing their time.
Excess of anything is bad. Some people tend to indulge in chemical dependencies, sexual obsessions, gambling, alcohol addictions that sometimes become so serious that it end up ruining a relationship. Addictions are very strong and even have the power to tear the loved ones apart. Thus, it becomes very important to know about the addictions of your partner.
You must know about your partner's financial conditions, bank balances, debts, bankruptcies and property. This might help you analysis if they are ready for a relationship and how happy they are going to keep in the future. This is especially for the females if they want to continue their shopping in the future.
You must know your partner's issues with your parents. It might help you understand the situation better and will help you settle the conflict. It will make your relationship happier.
Before making any physical relationships with your partner, you must be very sure if your partner is not suffering any Sexual Transmitted Diseases. These diseases may make your relationship suffer.
You should always keep an eye on your partner's secret friends. It's not like you should stop them from continuing those friendships but at least it should be clear between the partners that they know each other's friends and hence no room for misunderstanding.
Sexual satisfaction is most important for a healthy relationship. If your partner is not sexual satisfied or active either you partner will cheat you or you will end up getting separated. It becomes very important to know about your partner's sexual satisfaction. If you know that he is not sexually satisfied you must try and do things that will give them the pleasure.
You must know about the past of your partner, any criminal records and any act of violence. This is very important for your future, it might save you from being a victim of domestic violence.
You must know about all inner longings of your partner. It will help you understand them better, as any relationship depends upon mutual understanding.