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IN Lifestyle ON 02 Jun, 2015
Gone are those days when finding a lipstick spot or traces of another girl/boy made you aware of your cheating spouse, nowadays people are smarter, and they hardly leave any trace to get spotted. With modern era and technology, people are spending more time on gadgets and social networking sites play a significant role to catch them red-handed.
Before you move on with doubts and see following traits ask yourself a question "does your partner love you and care about your feelings?" If the answer is yes, then your partner is not cheating you because every person is not the same. Give him/her some space. Otherwise remove your doubt with the signs below.
When all of a sudden, your partner starts paying extra attention towards their look or try to get more attractive physically than this is a sure shot sign something is wrong. Your partner must be looking out for someone and wants to ensure hot chics/guys are attracted towards him/her.
To overcome the guilt of cheating, your partner will start accusing you for small things so that matter revolves around you. In this way your partner will easily deceive the matter and will never let blames of cheating fall for him/her.
Cheating partner may lock their phone and change common passwords you both share (of social networking sites), this is just to ensure that there is no way to trap his/her affair. Suddenly, your partner will call or text secretly when you are not watching or sleeping, try to pay extra attention towards his/her deeds without letting your partner know you are observing their actions. Check if your partner deletes call logs or text messages and have a lock on hidden apps, your partner may save the number of his/her beloved one with a fake name so be alert if you find anything suspicious.
The best way to overcome cheating guilt is to shower you with unexpected gifts, Cheating partner often uses this tendency to make up for his/her affair. You will find it so romantic, but it is significant that your partner is hiding something from you.
If your partner is cheating, he/she will find ways to spend less time with you and whenever you catch them up in a meeting with unknown people they will give an accuse that it's an official meeting or they are sorting out their friends matter. Cheaters know how to convince you when they are caught, so next time when they introduce new sister/ brother or office mate be alert otherwise you will end up being fooled by their story.
If your partner is cheating on you then he/she will be happy without any reason, instead of tiring face they will return home with a refreshing mood. They will chase around you to make sure you don't catch them.
Your partner may need some space during his/her extra affair, for this purpose, either your partner will plan a frequent trips and business trips alone or will ask you to go out on a trip. After all cheating mate needs some personal time with his/her new crush so next time you are experiencing such a behavior plan a surprise visit to clear your doubts.
Your partner might end up telling so many lies to you that at the end his/her details turn out to be vague. You might be wondering why a partner is hiding little things or giving you false explanations, it is a clear sign you are being cheated.
Keeping work and important things aside, if your partner is spending time with gadgets in odd hours than it's a sign he/she is cheating on you. Have a look at website or chat room, he/she is visiting
You and your partner are connected with an inner bond, once your better half starts cheating on you, you will feel dullness in your bond. You will see a change in your partner's behavior or your partner will spend less time with you. If you have an instinct go through the signs below, this is a sure sign your partner is cheating.