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IN Lifestyle ON 24 May, 2015
The best thing about a relation is that one person who won't give up on you even at the darkest hour. Faith, trust and lots of love are ingredients that make a healthy relationship. But a little spice never harms. Instead, it makes it taste better!
Fights and constructive arguments make it a so much better. Well, being in one makes you embrace everything that comes with it, and that is the beauty of it.
But when it comes to the guy vs. girls battle there is just no ultimatum. Since the beginning of the time, the guys vs. girls battle has been the hot topic. The battle is about everything and anything they can lay their hands on. And I am sure that each and every one of us has been in such these arguments many-a-times. It either turned in a huge fight or you had to settle at a mid-point concluding that it is endless.
There is a difference as to how a girl reacts to a relationship issue as to how a guys react to it. We have phycological facts and majority opinion to our aid to figure out things, at our end.
Women love to express.
They speak a lot, and they share stuff. Tough they never come to the problem straight. They start with the background so that the depths of the problem are easier to understand.
They conclude, something is wrong when you don't talk about your problems.
They see sharing problems as something that strengthens the relationship.
Men are rather reserved.
They don't share easily. They believe that sharing problems that you can single-handedly solve is a sign of weakness.
When they talk about it, they come straight to the point.
Sometimes when she is feeling a lot of things and talks about them, men get confused. Seeing her troubles, they talk less about their problems.
Note: Psychologically speaking, feelings have a much more profound effect on women than men, which sometimes men fail to understand.
So you know it.
Girls usually identify themselves in a relationship with the feelings it brings them. Happiness to them is spending more time with you, talking, steal kisses and cuddle.
Their sense of fulfillment comes when she can relate and share with you.
He loves you but to him identifying himself in a relationship is very different then how girls see it.
To him achievements and success in each and everything they do play a major role.
They are more analytical in their approach.
She goes on shopping bouts very often, but trust me it's guys who care about money more than her.
She is also considered more territorial, but then again-it's men.
She can live without money, but not without your trust and love.
Men take financial setbacks way more seriously than men.
The sense of responsibility they feel for you lets them be more affected by things like money- that brings both of you down.
Women want things that men fail to understand, but they are very clear about it.
Women might not be as practical as men, but they are intuitive.
Also, more creative than men.
Men are more logical in their approach then women.
They analyze and reason, rather than getting emotional with the problem.
Sometimes all women want to do is share stuff with you, rather than needing a piece of advice.
They want you to hold them close and tell them it's okay because that gives them strength.
Women tend to lie about their feeling, trying to hide, but men always know.
Also, they think too much.
Their anger, disappointment- they can hide it well.
They tell their problems only when they need an *expert* take on them.
They generally never lie about their feelings.
Men never worry about things as miniscule as women do.