Ever wondered why love fizzles out in your married life after few years of your wedding?
Re-work your love life before dullness becomes a serious problem.
Try these methods.
"It is equal to a bad kiss, smell, and a bad odor," says lifestyle expert Dana Korey. If the place is messy, then it will remind your partner about all the mess that he/she is facing in life.
Make sure there's no family picture around when you're feeling the heat to go all over your partner. Family pictures should be avoided in the bedroom. "The thought that member of your family is watching you in action may ruin your sex drive," Feng Shui expert Salvator Manzi said.
One of the major distraction between a couple is television, iPhone/iPad/iPod and cell phones.
"All these insignificant things prevent you from turning towards your partner," Korey said.
Keeping objects of ex-flames also keeps you away from the memories of the person who is close to you. Says Manzi, "If you can't part ways with things you received from your exes, then at least keep them hidden." They are your ex for a reason!
Soap in the foam, and hair in the drain can ruin your partner's mood to have a shower sex. Some partners denied getting physical with their better half only because they had left their clothes in the bathroom. So, keep your bathroom clean.
A single or double bed may not be enough for you to explore different dimensions while making love. In the same way, a king-size bed may put both of you across the borders that it might even become difficult to see each other. Also, "A bed overladen with pillows hinders your intimacy," says Christine Eisner, author of lifestyle books.
Nothing will kill your partner's mood faster than a crazy search for condom, or adult toys, or birth control pills. All these things should be easily accessible.
If you do not want to do it in dark, use soft lights for that perfect romance.
According to Feng Shui experts, your subconscious mind always knows what lies beneath your bed. It should be clear and clean so that your mind doesn't get distracted.
Have you ever thought why it is easy to get intimate in hotel rooms? The rooms in the hotel are well-arranged, organised, and covered with lovely linens and soft pillows.
Experiment with your taste and arrange your bedroom accordingly.