Dedicated to all girls out there...
Here I am going to talk about one of the most debatable topics in the world that is the ''personality traits in females.'' There is a huge misconception about girls in relation with their nature and their habits. Girls turn into women with time and go through different stages of life. But the common female habits always remain the same and females tend to keep very clear and straight thinking towards things.
So if there are misconceptions regarding the female traits, then they must be talked about and cleared out. So here are the facts about girls that everybody should know.
People often say that if a girl says 'NO' to something, it can be considered a 'YES', which is so not true. If she talks about something, that means she has already thought of all the possible replies she is going to receive in return. If she is doing something, she always has an approx calculation of the pros and cons of the acts she does. That very well concludes that, if she says NO, it is a very calculative denial, which never means a YES.
'Fine' is a word which exactly indicates that things are alright! Girls mostly get misunderstood if they say fine. People often take it as their rudeness and understand that it is their way to show anger.
Girls are most likely to be emotionally unstable during this period as there are many hormonal changes going in there body. It makes them feel irritated, emotionally weak, sometimes they may over react on small things, they might start crying with no reason or they might search for a reason to cry or to fight with you. One should be extra careful when they talk to a girl while she is going through this because she herself might not know how she is going to react to a situation. Hence, you must choose your words wisely or better not to talk about the sensitive issues.
This is an unsaid truth that we always receive what we deserve, but if you are telling this to a girl, be aware a big time! You are going to be quickly misinterpreted if you say this to her. It's not basically her fault that she takes this at heart as in our society, there exist people who are male chauvinist. Therefore, girls tend to have more self-respect in them and have an invisible outer sphere, wherein they selectively allow people to get in. This is how they keep themselves safe from the people who can hurt their emotions.
Girls always carry a personality that anybody can rely on them without having any doubt. If they are given any sort of responsibilities, they would always come up with the better outcome as they have a good sense of responsibility. Whatever they do, they find out their own creative way of doing things and they always make sure that whatever they do, would be of the standard that attracts people to appraise them. Be it a family thing or a professional matter, in every aspect girls are always preferred to be handed over responsibilities.
It is said that a girl usually opts for an indirect approach to convey her messages. But the reality is that if a girl wants something, she does not always route through people, the level of self-respect she maintains for herself does not let her do so. She always wants herself not to be evaluated any less than boys. Therefore, she chose to make a direct approach towards things by the means of which she can show herself strong enough to the world, that nobody is capable enough to take advantage of her innocence.
With the growth rate and development of the country, people should also change their mentality towards girls that they always need a guy to fulfill their demands. They are now more capable of achieving anything as the modern day girls have a very strong willpower. The scenario has always been the same since the olden days, but at that point in time, girls used to get no liberty to showcase their talents unlike now.
It is said that a girl has the power to turn up a stone in gold.
Yes, every girl wants her love story to be the best in the world and dreams of her prince charming, but wait! It does not mean that they are far away from the real world. Girls are well aware of the reality of the world. People make fun of them saying that they are always in their own dream world which does not have any connection with the reality. All girls would agree to this, if they do not have a fairy tale love story, they have an ocean of love inside them which has all the power to convert their normal story into a fairy tale.
Another misconception is that girls always want to win arguments and for that, they can talk anything beyond logic. Is it really true? Girls need sense and logics in every discussion more than boys do. Men hardly accept if a girl is proven right against them, it might be because of the ''men ego'' which makes them feel that she is making no sense. But again, it's wrong!
A study has found that men spend an average 76 minutes a day tittle-tattling with their friends or work colleagues, compared to just 52 minutes for women. Favorite topics include the antics of drunken friends, old school friends, and the most attractive girl at work. Hence, this all has been a myth that girls are gossiper.
Girls have always been very active and also use proactive approach towards things. They don't believe in sitting idle, instead, they always try doing new things or even try to refurbish older stuff using their creativity. Be it their workplace or home, they believe in doing their job keenly.
When it comes to tolerance, girls are always better than the boys as they have to go through many pains both physically and psychologically. A Girl always stresses herself but she never let people know what mental condition she is in or what face of life she is passing through. Girls have a better tolerance level than boys as they can take things on themselves with no complaints.
This is true that girls are considered to be more talkative, but in any given situation they are less reactive. We can't expect an instant reaction coming from a girl as girls are more practical. If there is something going around, they would first listen to it properly to know the whole thing; would then evaluate the situation and then act accordingly.
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