Are You Good To Your Lover? These 10 Questions Will Help You Find Out

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Are You Good To Your Lover? These 10 Questions Will Help You Find Out
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Do you think you are not good for your lover? Do you love him? Does he love you back? Find out if you are good to your boyfriend by taking this simple test. You can also ask your lover to take the test. 

#1 - Do I Put Your Needs Before My Own?

#1 - Do I Put Your Needs Before My Own?

If you really love someone, you want them to be happy, and that means there are times when your needs must take a back seat to theirs (and vice-versa). If your partner feels that you can compromise, you probably have a fairly healthy relationship, but if they don't, you might want to re-evaluate your own behavior.

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#2 - Do I Offer Stability And Security?

#2 - Do I Offer Stability And Security?
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And can we talk about things that really matter in these areas? Communication is vital in keeping a relationship moving forward, and if you don't make someone feel stable and secure, the odds are you're not in it for the long haul. Seeing yourself through your partner's eyes can help you become closer.

#3 - Do I Make You Feel That I Am Proud of You?

#3 - Do I Make You Feel That I Am Proud of You?
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A relationship is something we choose. The best reason to choose a relationship is that our partners make us feel great about ourselves. If your partner thinks you're not proud of them, then you're neglecting the basic building blocks of a happy relationship. If you can't feel proud of your partner, who will?

#4 - Do I Share Your Sorrows And Aim To Make You Feel Better?

#4 - Do I Share Your Sorrows And Aim To Make You Feel Better?
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It's easy to be there during the good times, but do you go missing when the seas get stormy, and the ship ends up on the rocks? A truly loving partner offers support and assistance when their partner is floundering without an anchor. Do you cheer your partner up when they're down?

#5 - Am I Patient With You?

#5 - Am I Patient With You?
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Patience is a virtue and it's an essential part of a healthy relationship, too. Do you take the time to listen to your partner even on the little things in life? Are you capable of putting them at ease or do your actions put them even more on edge?

#6 - Do I Laugh Off The Small Stuff?

#6 - Do I Laugh Off The Small Stuff?
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"Don't sweat the small stuff" is a pretty good motto to live by. If you can laugh off minor frustrations in a relationship, you can put your partner at ease so they trust you when it comes to the big things. Laughter can help someone feel comfortable particularly when they're just being silly or playful but missing the mark.

#7 - Do I Surprise You With Small Gestures?

#7 - Do I Surprise You With Small Gestures?
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While not sweating the small stuff is important the small stuff is the majority of day-to-day life. If you take care to surprise your partner every now and again with little but thoughtful gestures, you can make their day. It doesn't have to cost anything; it just has to be an act of consideration.

#8 - Do I Tell You That You're Awesome?

#8 - Do I Tell You That You're Awesome?
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It's not enough to think that somebody else is awesome because they can't hear those thoughts inside your head. You have to tell the person that you're with that thought and you think they will rock your world. It doesn't have to be constant like a phony mantra, but you do need to speak up sometimes.

#9 - Am I Open To Your Suggestions Of What To Do?

#9 - Am I Open To Your Suggestions Of What To Do?
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You may come up with fun stuff for you to do together but do you listen when your partner is looking to do something together? It's important that your relationship has both give and take or soon it will start to feel like all the fun is a one-way street heading only in your direction.

#10- Friendship is the cornerstone of all healthy relationships.

#10- Friendship is the cornerstone of all healthy relationships.
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We confide in our friends, we trust our friends, and this should mean that the most important person in your life, your partner, considers you to be their best friend and vice-versa. If they don't, things are already on very shaky ground. 

At times, does your need take a back seat in front of your partners need?