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IN Lifestyle ON 18 Nov, 2016
Sexual desires and needs vary so much from person to person and it's impossible to be on the same page.
No doubt, it's a fundamental part of human existence, but the important thing is its place in your relationship. While many people are flippant about having coitus, others are very particular.
If your partner is continuously asking for potential sexual interaction, it might be a good token for your relationship or a severe alert. But its actual meaning is always doubtful.
Here, I have assembled some points which might help you to know it in a better way.
Theory says, a physical level of intimacy is only natural and is necessary for a couple, to show a level of contentment and affection. And sexual intimacy is one of the best ways to do it.
Your partner wants to express his love for you. No doubt, one can express emotions verbally, but nothing says it better than physical intimacy.
Asking for intimacy may indicate that he's eager to expand his own range of experience and try new things. He wants to make you feel his love and trust as your companion.
Yes! By asking such questions, he might be trying to read your mind, whether you are ready to bring your relationship to the another level or not. And, there are chances that he is thinking of getting marrying with you. Woooo!
If your partner is interested in just fulfilling his wants and needs to suffice in the relationship, then it's a RED FLAG that he is using you for his pleasure.
Many men pressurise their partner to meet their needs for sex, and that's all they are interested in.
If he is putting pressure on you, there are chances that he just wants the prize and when he gets it, he will be done with you.
Girls always give into pleasuring their boy to avoid any friction in the relation, and several men use this emotional handle to manipulate them.
If he manipulates you for having sex, then it's a clear indication that he has no emotional investment in the relationship.
If he is comparing you with other relationships and saying things like "If you loved me, you would" or applying pressure to you either through emotional manipulation or physical threats, that's a red rag.
And, you need to get out of it as soon as possible.
Having coitus in a relationship or asking your partner for having it is not a dirty idea. The point is, who is asking you for the thing and what's its feelings behind the relationship.
Sex is good for your health, hormonal balancing and keeping your romance alive, but be aware, to get unsighted because of their love.
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