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IN Lifestyle ON 24 Oct, 2016
Have you ever fallen in love with someone realizing that s/he is the worst person you could have invested your time in? We all know that one person who is not right for us but still we take a step forward to give them entry in our life.
It is soon clear that it isn't working out and at the end, we decide to separate paths. However, heartbreaking it may sound, but there are certain reasons due to which we get attracted to an a$$hole and then stick to them till our bubble bursts.
1. Making bad decision
2. Low self-esteem at that point
3. No confidence
4. You are surrounded by bad people
The reasons can be one or all mixed together. Also, all the reasons could be false for you. Could you recognize yours?
Whatever the reasons are, the fact that we cannot deny is that it's a part of our life. The question is while you could feel the shattering sound of your heart but does the other person feel the same. Well, they will certainly be your biggest mistake but you will be their biggest regret.
The little things toward which you pay attention is something new for them as not many people do the same.
They are used to being playful and perceive that everyone is the same but when you are concerned about them that comes as a surprise. It is a contradiction for their playful nature.
They are so busy in being on their own that they forget to connect with the world around them and that often leaves them lost. You were a guiding light for them even without you realizing.
If you see the reality, it is they who need you and not the other way around. No, we are not saying this to soothe your angry wounded heart. They need you because you CARE.
They are the ones who are extremely popular when it comes to finding people for 'love.' However, they miss self-satisfaction and the feeling of belonging. That's the saddest part. They realize that you are the best thing that ever happened to them but they were too scared to come out of their image to take on the responsibility of being in love.