When a girl says NO, it means Maybe. This is bullshit. When a girl says NO it means a NO. There is absolutely no other meaning of denying something.
''Boys don't cry", " Stop behaving like a girl" all these sayings are subconsciously being fed to the young minds, that's why it hurts their so called Male Ego when a girl says NO.
Given below is a true story when a young daughter and her mother stood for themselves and made their point very clear.
A young independent mother gets a phone call from her daughter's school. The institution reports that her daughter had hit another student. When the reason was conveyed to her, she was not just shocked but disappointed by the sick mentality of the board.
Read the story below and decide yourself whether the young girl did the right thing or not.
The mother rushes to the school to find if her daughter was okay or not. She ushered into the principal's office and saw four people staring at her little daughter who was scared to death. A male teacher, a female counselor, the principal, a boy with blood around his nose and his parents were angry when she entered the room.
The Principal told the mother that the boy twanged the young girl's bra and she punched him in the face TWICE. The board member was not embarrassed by the act of the boy but was embarrassed by the girl's reaction.
All the board members were trying to convince the mother that the matter was not serious. The counselor said let's not overreact and the Principal said that she was not getting the point. But the mother was firm. She made the decision to press charge against the boy for sexually assaulting her daughter and against the school for allowing this to happen.
She turned towards her daughter and asked her, to tell the truth. The girl said," He kept pinging my bra. I asked him to stop but he didn't, so I told the Teacher. He told me to 'ignore it'. But the boy did it again and undid my bra so I hit him. Then he stopped
The mother turned towards the teacher and said, "Come over here and let me touch the front of your trousers". The teacher was shocked and immediately said No. She laughed and said, "Does that seem inappropriate to you? Why don't you go and pull on Mrs. Counselor's bra or the boy's mom's bra? See how fun it is for her. You just think they're kids it's fun?" All the people in the room were ashamed.
She made her point very clear. Her daughter was not the one who should be embarrassed. The boy's mother started crying and his dad looked angry. The teacher and the Principal couldn't make eye contact with her.
She took her daughter home, and warned the boy if he ever touched her daughter again,he will definitely be behind the bars. He boy learned his lesson and said sorry to everyone.