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IN Lifestyle ON 29 Sep, 2016
Everyone knows it sucks when you get a heartbreak. And when it happens for the first time, it's next to dying. Love bug bites us all, admit it or not, but we've all been in love. As they say, "The show must go on!" Life offers a second chance of healing the scars given by incomplete love.
So here we are cheering the second love because it came along and saved your heart after it was smashed and broken into pieces. Give it the honor and respect it deserves, making this relationship count.
From the past bitter experiences, you definitely know what you want in life and what not to expect. One is no longer blindsided by attraction or butterflies.
The first heartbreak always leaves a bad impact on our heart and soul. But for the second time, we rightly know our priority, our self-identity and more importantly when to stand up for ourselves.
After a heartbreak, one thing is for sure that happily ever after looks good only in books. You've eased on constant social media posts and couple selfies. You are fully prepared for the next one and the best part is, you are able to love again.
You've been in love, you know the feeling and you have seen it all. You fell in love, then you fell out of it and you survived. The best part is you have the ability to fall again. And the right person will definitely make this relationship count.
Being in love again is definitely not boring. If anything, it will calm you down. In your second relationship, you are grown up and mature relationship focuses on future. You have already seen the lust and puppy love and knows one thing for sure that these things won't last.
When you come out of a bad relationship and find someone worthy to love again, you'll give your 100% this time. You will respect the person more and will try to make the relationship work.
The greatest thing about second love is that it is unexpected. We swear we won't fall in love again but destiny plays its card. The second love always gives a valid reason to walk on the same path again with a better perspective.
Believe it or not, but relationships do change you as a person. You realize that life is not always easy, people change, and love is not a fairytale. The butterflies feeling you had before won't be there this time. This time, it will be the comfort, understanding, and respect that will draw you close to the other person.
When your first love ends,insecurities abound. You feel imperfect and perhaps unloved. Don't let these negative vibes affect your next relationship.
Give them the respect, love and warmth they deserve.