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IN Lifestyle ON 28 Sep, 2016
Nowadays people use to get so stuck with their professional life, that they hardly get space to be with their own self. To be always professional affect their personal life in such a way that they handle their personal relationships being a professional.
The cause is already known to all of us, but by the time we realize it, we might not be left with the time to take care of them. Here are some tips that can help us not to let our professional self-affect our personal relations.
Being nostalgic can also help to make our roots stronger. Always remember the day from when you started your professional journey and never let the official things come to your door step. You can always recall the olden days when you used to be different with what you are today. It may always help to keep your inner self-alive and you do not forget the actual YOU this way. It is said that "The more you love a memory, the stronger and stronger it is".
No matter how old you are, a little child within you always craves for love acceptance, warmth and affection. Never let that child die because that always makes you do stuff which you might not prefer to do but are very pleasant and gives you happiness. It is an essential part to be distressed to manage your personal life and deal with your personal relations.
The purpose of doing this exercise is to actually gain insight into yourself and your personal priorities. One must go through this exercise in some span of time to analyze what are the changes taking place in your nature, behavior and to find out the root cause and ways to deal with it.
Paying attention is not such an easy thing to do, it is always easy to get destructed when you are having a conversation but being attentive is a skill. It is always advised to not neglect any discussion, the things you dislike and to avoid situations you don't want to be in. Avoiding any discussion will not going to give any positive turn to your relationship or being physically present but not mentally is also a kind of ignorance that might make your partner feel that you are no more interested in carrying forward the relationship. You perhaps expect your partner to understand that you are stressed, but repetitive negligence may result to a big damage to your relationship.
No matter how busy your schedule is, but you need to seek for the situations where you can make out some time for yourself and your partner too. Nothing in this world is as precious for your partner as the time that you give to him/her, since you are giving them something that you will never get back.
Vacation always sounds interesting but it does not always mean to go on a long holiday or travel for days. Taking a long walk is also as good as a holiday when you are stressed.
We all are very addicted to mobile phones and laptops, though that are very important and useful too but at the same time, it leads to stress. You should switch off all your electronic devices at least once in a day and disconnect yourself totally from it. Let's experience what difference that it makes into your life :)
Techniques such as meditation, deep breathing exercises and mindfulness (a state in which you actively observe present experiences and thoughts without judging them) can help melt away stress. Start by taking a few minutes each day to focus on a simple activity like breathing, walking or enjoying a meal. The skill of being able to focus purposefully on a single activity without distraction will get stronger with practice and you'll find that you can apply it to many different aspects of your life.
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You might be going through a bad face or getting disappointed with something which is quite a usual thing these days. You must always find out the ways to get rid of your anger and disappointment as such that does not harm your personality. Remember, the personality what you have been caring is the pillar of all your relations that have been made by you. Relationships are so sensitive that you might always not expect them to understand the actual cause of your disappointment. It improves the chances for you to get misunderstood and misunderstandings always lead you to a rough way.
Expressions are very important factor to keep a relationship animate. Being responsive to something is not always considered as an argument, accumulation of thoughts and feelings (hard or soft) may harm your relationships in long term since that are meant be conveyed on appropriate time. Due to the nature of professional world we tend to be not responsive and prefer to stay quiet in some situations, which might be helpful at the workplace but might be proven destructive when it is about a relationship. Let your partners know how you actually feel about a particular thing and let them know what your likes and dislikes are, it is always better be careful than to be regretful.