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IN Lifestyle ON 26 Sep, 2016
A great relationship is little difficult these days. Everybody has relationship problems; maybe you are one of those people who is going through arguments, hassle or disconnection. But don't worry, as every relationship has ups and downs.
On that note, how would you rate your relationship on the scale of 1 to10? If your rating goes below 5 or 5 itself, then you are going through the bad phase, and you need some fixing. Well, don't panic and check the ways to fix it and turn things around.
To start with, first, recognize your problem. It can be:
1. Your partner wants to be different than what you actually are.
2. You guys find the lack of attraction or craze as it used to be earlier.
3. Many other problems.
Studies have shown that discussion on what's right and what's wrong in a relationship has solved matters easily.
You know the worst thing is when the partners in relationship point out each other's mistakes instead of admitting their own.
If things are bothering you, say them on the spot instead of keeping in mind for long and getting them exploded at the wrong time.
If you find yourself getting angry, take a break and relax with some music or take a few deep breaths.
Listening to your partner will help you to make your relationship better. You will get to know what s/he wants.
Understanding each other calmly and learning to compromise is a key to any good relationship.
It is often seen that past incidences affect the present of relationship. So skip the past.
It is about priorities. Keeping everything at bay, make your partner and relationship as a top priority.
If you work hard with your relationship, then I am sure you will be able to construct the connection you once had.
You can go for brainstorming sessions too.
Make a plan together and respect each other's needs and wants.
It is necessary to focus on ourselves as an independent person brings more to a relationship.
Read also: 7 Ways to strengthen your relationship