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IN LGBT ON 12 Sep, 2016
It is revolutionary for any trans person to choose to be seen and visible in the world that tells them they shouldn't exist. We are all assigned a gender at birth. And you are not supposed to hurt your chances by remaining ignorant to a person; you are attracted to.
Dating is hard for many people, but when you are trans, it is even difficult in a different way. Dating a trans woman does not always mean tragedy and heartache, but it is more about general compatibility.
So if you are attracted to trans women, follow these rules.
The word "tranny" makes them feel like a thing rather than a person. Be polite and respectful with your words. Do not let what you see in porn decide how to talk to a trans woman.
There are various transitions taking place in transgendered bodies. When you have started dating a girl who is in the middle of the transition, don't add insult to injury. Make her feel secure and comfortable.
Do not consider a trans woman as a drag queen. That is a blunder!
Many guys tend to ask a lot of questions which may even hurt them in some way. Don't act as a detective. Give them some time to open up things with you.
The vaginas of transgender woman are not able to self-lube. You need to make sure that, you have plenty on hand.
You really don't have to do that. There are many trans women who are escorts, but that doesn't mean it's the case for everyone. It is rude, offensive, and complete stereotyping.
If you are in a relationship with a transgender woman, there is no point hiding that. Introduce her to your friends, and treat her like a lady.
Whenever you talk to any trans woman, treat her like a normal or regular girl. Comparing her to a cis woman is beyond frustrating, humiliating, and degrading.
Instead of asking how good they are in bed in the initial days of dating, allow them to feel comfortable with you first. Like others, they too have goals and ambitions to achieve, hobbies, and things they love to do. This will help you get more in tune with her.
Usually, men oversexualize transgender women as some rare beings who are always ready to have sex. This is sad. If you want the intimate experience, you must take legal and health risks of hiring a hooker. You must treat trans women with the respect they deserve. They are just as lovable and acceptable as any other girl.