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These 7 Life Struggles Are All Yours If You Marry Early

They say that pairs are made in heaven. Maybe they are right. But if done at a wrong time, a marriage can be a journey to hell. Getting hitched early might seem to be a good idea, but is it really the case? Let's have a look at some reasons why you must be judicious in planning the timing of your marriage.



These 7 Life Struggles Are All Yours If You Marry Early

These 7 Life Struggles Are All Yours If You Marry Early

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1: The maturing years

1: The maturing years

If teenage is the time when a person grows, then it is in the twenties when the person matures. 

This is the period when a person evolves the most by discovering and nurturing himself/herself as well as by figuring out what his/her likes and preferences are. This period can get extended depending upon person to person. 

An early marriage may put a full-stop on this process. At this juncture, a person is most likely to make a wrong choice when it comes to selecting one's life partner. When you marry late, you are financially and emotionally ready for it and are thus likely to find a compatible partner.

2: Career obstacle

2: Career obstacle

In today's competitive age, every person wants to make a good career. People are exploring new horizons and taking the path less travelled. Opportunities take them to places they have never gone to before. An early marriage, however, can become a hindrance in their path. For example, A person is less likely to travel overseas for a job opportunity without his/her spouse.

3: Mother at 20, are you serious?

3: Mother at 20, are you serious?

Getting married too young can lead to health complications, especially for women. But once married early, it becomes difficult to deal with the family pressure to have a child. 

Becoming a young mother can have a hazardous impact on the health of both mother and child.

4: Threatens your Independence.

4: Threatens your Independence.

Apart from career-related aspirations, many youngsters have out of the ordinary dreams to fulfil. Like some want to experience a biking trip to Ladakh, some desire to explore Miami and some aspire to accomplish their dream of having a heavy bank balance. Taking wedding vows early may again play a spoilsport here, as after marriage it's not about only you.

5: Responsibilities

5: Responsibilities

If you are burdened with family responsibilities from a very young age, tying the knot early is a bad idea. Marriage is all about taking responsibility of your partner. Now, if you're the sole breadwinner of your family, getting married way too soon will only increase the problem for you. So, think wise, act wisely. Marry when you're ready for it by all means.

6: Bid a goodbye to the "me time"

6: Bid a goodbye to the

If you are a kind of person who loves to spend hours alone. If you consider yourself as your bestie, then marriage can surely hamper your friendship with yourself. Tying the knot may force you to bid a farewell to all your personal interests and hobbies. So think twice before you act!

7: I'm in love at 20. WHAT???

7: I'm in love at 20. WHAT???

Falling in Love at a very young age is a bad idea. In the present era, girls are in no way less than boys.

Girls are climbing the ladder of success in all walks of life and have proved to be equally talented like the males across the globe. And getting into a serious relationship with someone can surely hamper the goals you have set for your life. 

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