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IN Lifestyle ON 24 Aug, 2016
Relationships involve two people and there is no space for any other person. Whether you make out or hang out; it's always just the two of you. There are things which the two of you do with other friends but certainly, there are a few things in which you should not involve your friends.
Some people like to brag about their relationship, while some people cannot handle their relationship problems alone. On your part, it could be lighter to share your side of things with your friends, but there are a few things, that only the two of you should know.
Couples fight, no big deal. You both will get back to normal in a few days. It's okay to tell your friends about your relationship and it's okay to tell about your fight but you should certainly not elaborate the details of your fight. Plus, you can go for an honest opinion too from your friend but never explain your fights.
The things behind the doors are to be kept a secret. It will be very embarrassing for your partner to hear about your intimate details from a third person. Only you can make your friends respect your partner.
The bedroom talks are done with trust that you would understand. If you are not very much into it, clarify it to your partner but please don't speak about it in front of friends. If said, your friend will never look at your partner in the same way again.
There is a lot more in a relationship than just physical intimacy. Your partner not only trusts you with their body but also words. They not only find you a partner in bed but a partner in problems too. And if in this hope, they share something personal about themselves, you have no right to leak it out to your friends only to get some fruitful input.
I mean what is the need? You wanted to know, and you know it now. What would your partner do with it? You both can bitch around about the past number of relationships of your partner but practically it is of no use.
If you have complaints with your partner, then settle it down with them. But if you complain it to your friends very often, they will suggest you to leave the person because you become very miserable every now and then.
It does not make any sense to compare your partner with your ex or with your friend's partner in front of your friend. If you are not happy with your partner, just leave the person but comparing will not make you happier.
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