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IN Lifestyle ON 15 Jul, 2016
Flirting seems like an innocent behaviour but it might lead to cheating a lot of times.
How will you know if your flirting is harming your relationship or it is completely healthy for you to go all cheesy and bitchy for a man you drool for or the girl you wait for?
The signs we have listed over for you will give you exactly what you need to clear up in your mind. Getting aware of all the red flags will let you know if you need to put a stop to your flirtatious behaviour or continue with the lip-smacking talk you love.
Relationships can become comfortable. You get to know each other in no time and then you know what your likes and dislikes are. And when you are saturated and you know every little quirk, you start having a feeling of being not amused or rather being bored of each other. You miss the excitement then.
Who doesn't love a compliment? Flattering and flaunting opens up gates to flirting and when you are here, you are cheating, my girl.
You are getting into a dangerous situation here. You know he allures your senses and that his presence means a lot to you. But if you are drifting away from your boyfriend and sneaking out to meet your 'heaven on earth', you are cheating.
Sometimes you are with a man you no longer want to be with you or you are with him but you feel like you need a change. But, then you cannot just break off things that easily and you have to continue. And, you like that guy from your street. Mess!! It's a big mess.
It's easier for someone to catch your eye when things are not going well. This is the time to evaluate your relationship. Are you just going through a rough patch or you need to take things seriously and let go of the relationship because it is eating you up? Just don't make the decision in a hurry.
Is this happening?
Do you find yourself comparing the love of your life to your new found love? If this is the case, you are likely to cheat. While it may be easy to do but you don't know that new guy that nicely to start comparing him to the man you have spent almost your lifetime.
That is one big red flag. If you are fantasising about your object of flirtation your relationship is most likely on the shaky ground. Take this as a serious sign, your relationship is on the verge of breaking apart. Talk to your partner and tell him exactly what you want. And if not? Let your boyfriend know you are ready to go separate ways.
Are you in this position?
Have you been in this situation in the past?
Let us know in the comments and we might as well help you further.
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