This story now
IN LGBT ON 07 Jul, 2016
You can find a myriad of sex advice and tips to have the best sex of your life. Those glossy pages of the magazine and scrolling through the web is simply a sheer waste of time. Everybody has his/her own take on how to have the best orgasm of your life with your partner. Of course, those 'sexdvice' sound good, but it's the execution that matters. Was the outcome exact as you planned?
Well, let's try the other way. I've compiled a list of sex advice by gay men and women for straight women and men respectively.
Let's begin with gay men advice for straight women...
"Never be quiet, always be loud."
"Teasing and the soft motion of hands touching and stuff, that would work. Guys are a lot more sensitive than they let on, so foreplay does go a long way."
"It's tempting to think that a man's only erogenous zone is the one he pokes you in the back with the first thing, but lots of men enjoy having their earlobes, neck and nipples kissed." - Joe Stone
"While massaging or licking a hairy chest, thigh or calf, be gentle. Unless you're lightly tickling him, concentrate on the muscle and not the surface, because an overzealous stroking may seem passionate to you, but it's a painful hair-pulling for him. Creams, lotions and massage oils can make it even worse [so] use them judiciously."
- Dan Anderson, author of Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay man.
"Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear."
Now some sex advice from the lesbians to straight men. Read on.
Communicate about what she wants, respect her feelings and give her what she wants. Just be clear about what you want and what she wants.
Women love compliments, especially the praises about her looks. Kate Moore says, "Try to feel alluring and sensual under those conditions."
When she is tired, give her a massage, don't say a word. Just listen to her, make her calm and give her a sensual or relaxing massage. She'll love it. If she asks for your opinions, just be modest. The aim is to relax her.
"The way to calm us down is by listening to us and being that nice, calm energy that balances our neuroses out." - Zara Barrie, Elite Daily.
"If she isn't wet enough and she's telling you she's into it, that she's all ready for your fat wiener, she's a liar. You simply haven't done enough to get her going, or she's just not into you"
"Treat your wife like an individual who knows what she does and does not enjoy. Respect her words. That's the best lesbian advice I can give you. Treat the women in your life like adults who know themselves."
- Katie Ann Holton
Recommended for you: 15 Of The Hottest Gay Couples You Will Ever Find On Instagram