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IN Lifestyle ON 25 Jun, 2016
You don't need a man who can prove his love being as deep as the ocean but a man who knows how to support his claims to his actions. You don't need a man who can say he loves you and not be the one who isn't even there when and when not you need him. That is the reason you need to pay a close attention to the way the man you are in a relationship with might not be the one you should fall head over heels in love with, rather study the things he does to you. And if they are anywhere amongst these, you should drop thinking about taking things further. Trust me on these. These relationship advice for women will help you clear off a lot of doubts.
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Don't take that from anyone. Be yourself because you are born this way and if he gives you any of that shit, ask him to pack his bags and leave.
Your man should be supportive of whatever you want to be. You want to be a singer, you can. You wish to be an artist, go ahead with it. And if you find your guy trying hard to curb your dreams. You don't need him.
Yes, it is a big step to meet someone's parents and an even bigger step to commit to someone. But, then if you guys have been together for a long time now and there is no growth. You need to think about taking things further or just leave.
If there's love, he will definitely resist the urge to cheat on you. Some people can recover from it but some cannot and it usually creates a big problem between couples. After all, your partner should be concerned about your happiness and never dream of cheating on you.
If it happened that one time, then it probably was an accident but if this is a repetitive activity, you seriously need to take a stand. In that case, your partner is not who you wished he was.
Unless you are dating someone from work and have to keep it a secret, it's fine but if it has been long and both of you are in any ways mutual, you should think of the reason why?
Never remain in a relationship that involves physical abuse. If he hits you or even shoves you, it is your responsibility to break things up. Getting beaten by a girl is equally bad a being affected by a guy. If it is any of these cases, quit.
Lies have no doubts. In this case, you should simply take the cue and forget what breaking up will feel like. Do it already, if he is lying.
We all, joke around a lot with our loved ones, but sometimes the jokes turn into making the person feel like a jerk. If he is making jokes that feel like he is stabbing you or are on a very personal note, think before you take things further. Rather you should end things right there.
What would you do if your partner never listens to you, even if it is not a fight but a casual chit chat? Both men and women are guilty of not being able to listen to their partners effectively. It happens sometimes when you have things going on but then if you really care about a person you would listen. Ignoring you is a sign that he is not the one for you.
Another way to tell if he truly loves you is the amount of effort he puts into making it up to you. We are all busy, we have friends, work, family and even relatives, but there is always time to keep that one person we truly love, close to us. Take a note if he is always busy, flaking on you or even just trying to see you when it is convenient for him.
Does it feel like pulling your teeth while talking to your guy about your future? If this is the case, you should stop going out. If he cannot own up to the relationship you share, he sure as hell deserves no place in your heart and life.
If it is about appreciating the girl sitting right next to you, then it is fine but if you see your guy seriously stalking a girl who's hot and well, not you. You need to pull up your socks honey. That is tacky and you should brush him off.
Don't let him now because you are beautiful and you need to be treated like a queen.