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IN Lifestyle ON 20 Jun, 2016
Too often girls sit around and ponder what to and what not to text guys.
Texting is not supposed to be as complicated as we have considered it! But, these guidelines will for sure help you sort out the baffled and confused feeling you get when wanting to text a guy.
Here are 9 things to say/ not to say while texting a guy.
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Ladies, let's get this straight: boys have no interest in knowing about Aunt Flo and when and how it is visiting. If anything, they just want to imagine that she is your aunt who might be visiting. So, if you are holding back your urge to go out with him, use it as your ploy to make him reason who you have plans with instead.
They miss you too but they don't need a reminder for that. Don't just grow clingy texting him that you miss him and a shoot a lot of emoticons his way with those weepy eyes. This will scare him away. Instead, take the opportunity, sport a sultry night dress and send him the snaps. That will make him want you more.
Sexy moves always work. There are three things that go in a guys mind throughout the day, be it sex, food, and sports. Shoot a sexy picture or some flirty texts, and watch him text you back. Even if you are stuck in the traffic, don't bug him with your sympathetic texts. Either text him telling that you just got out of the shower. Just remember to keep it minimum and not overdo it.
It is always good to keep your guys in a loop. This will make him crazy. When a guy texts you first, reply back asking,"Who the person is?", He will most likely have a whole explanation to give. After he tells you his name, keep things casual and simple. After all, playing with a man's ego is the best thing to do.
Don't talk baby to your guy. All your baby talks should stay away from the conversations. A guy does not want to be cuddled especially through the phone.
How many times do you text your guy, if he doesn't respond? Don't jam his recent texts with your name. You will scare him away. You one and the only solution is if he wants to talk to you he will. That is as simple as that. Don't push him with your overwhelming texts.
When it comes to saying things like "Do you want to go out with me? or he asks you if you would love to have an ice- cream."
Though we know, you will be bubbling with pleasure. Please don't. Keep it 'cool' and 'okay'. That is it.
Don't make him feel too much like a priority.
It is totally infuriating if you have to answer a text and there are a million words in your mind. You don't seem to find a conclusion. Take time to form a longer response next time, but this time, an 'Okay' will suffice.
Keep your flirt but don't let him take you as an easy catch.
First, don't do it on text, please. Second, don't cringe over the fact that you do. If it's the first time either of you are saying the L- word for the first time. A text message makes it less special and it should appear like it happened all of a sudden.
Don't be overdramatic, though.