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IN Lifestyle ON 17 Jun, 2016
Long distance relationships are hard and that - in case, you were wondering, is a vast, enormous, understatement.
You wish you were together. You wish you could cuddle. You miss your partner so much, and you miss being closer. You hate you can't go out on dates, or even hold hands and kiss each other whenever you feel like. And you get horny sometimes. And you miss feeling their touch around anytime you desire. But you don't have to waste your time anymore thinking of ways you get to spice things up being in different states or territories.
This is one of the most convenient ways to stay sexually connected in a long distance relationship, it is discreet, quick and steamy and it grows sizzling after you get a good hang of it.
It never hurts anyone. You can't have phone sex out in the open but yeah you can have it, at least if you ain't getting any action in your bedroom. At the end of the day when you two are alone in your own space, you can spice up things and get all down and dirty on the phone.
Not a person who knows how to go all dirty with sexy texts. Don't worry, send flirty texts and keep her/him all engrossed. Keep things more PG13.
This is important. Getting to see each other is important. Technology is a god's gift to today's generation and you don't have to see each other virtually to get all frisky but just to stay in the loop.
Again this is not just to keep things all spiced up, it is just to keep things in their place for you to have a happy relationship. Staying on the phone even if you are grocery shopping, helps a lot in staying close to each other.
There are times when you definitely can go solo while talking on call or facetime. It's hot to break off the routine and go all frisky about things. You will pretty much fly and the happy hormones will do the work for you.
It goes this way first, is making the video is apt for your current status. If you trust your partner, go ahead with it and get it done but if you don't, drop the idea. The idea is devilish and it sure as hell will give that added notch to your relationship.
You are about to get to know each other a lot better. Try talking about your fantasies and how you can incorporate them when you plan out meeting each other. Tell them and explain them, take your partner into your fantasy world.
This goes with the same disclaimer as for the videos. A sudden snap at any time of the day will bring in a lot of hotness in your relationship.
Exchanging cute emails, just to be in touch is a great idea to keep things good between you two. You can even get detailed, extremely detailed about everything.
A handwritten letter is an art. It's a lovely way to keep in touch and add that extra oomph of love in your long distance relationship. Imagine if some surprises are extra sweet.
In fact there are loads of apps for that.
Some of these toys come for the Long distance relationship apps. Your partner can easily have an O pleasure several continents away.
Now that you have your toys in hand you can go all crazy with new moves. Of course not real ones, but good ones.