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IN Lifestyle ON 02 Jun, 2016
Thanks to the stereotypes existing in the society, it is very easy to assume that men are only after two basic prime elements – stake and sex. This cliché is furthermore strengthened by the quotes like "a man's heart is through his stomach." Well, in reality, these are not the only things which a man desire from the women he loves. He desires much more subtle and emotional things. Assuming that they only want to feed two very basic desire is nothing but a gross misconception.
If seen in a deeper way, men are often not complicated in their desire. Their wants are simple. Their linear way of thinking includes having a need and the desire to fulfil the same. However, that doesn't mean that they don't have the capability of going deep into different emotional levels. There is a fine line which always separates their simplistic desires and their deep understanding. This is where often the women fail to recognize the other side or the side which emphasizes on the emotional need of men.
Often men don't come in the limelight and get vocal about their emotions. They do not show the kind of support they are craving from their partner. This lack of communication also creates a problem when it comes to the process of understanding. If taken a deep look we will be astonished to see that the emotional support needed by men is not much different from that of the women. However, the difference is that many times they are misinterpreted and thus men come out as unemotional.
While there are a few which conform to this stereotype but majority keeps a very secret wish list in their heart. If your man is one of those who doesn't know how to be vocal about his feelings, then this article certainly refreshes the way you look at him. Her we present you with straightforward emotional needs of men that they want their partners to know.
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Though men are ready to deal with your emotional bouts most of the times but they cross the lines when an unnecessary emotional display takes place in front of their friends or family.
Yes, when you fake during love-making, most of the times they can understand it but certainly can't conjure up the guts to ask the reason. They just want your frankness at times. Oh, that includes the fake moans too!
By the unwritten social norm, it's the guy's responsibility to set a perfect date night and they love doing the same. However, deep down in their heart they also want to get pampered once-in-a-while. Ladies, gear up your creative side and show how romantic you are!
At times when they are quite, it doesn't mean that they don't want to talk with you or is angry. There are times the guys value their 'me' time and just want to enjoy isolation.
Men take a lot of time to open up and share what's going inside. However, when they share upsetting news it's not for advice. They function is such way that they don't want to come up with the problem again until they have found a solution. So, give them the time.