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IN People ON 23 May, 2016
There are times when you fall in love and there are times when you might fall out of love. Let's accept it, no one likes to be dumped. Be it any reason, breakups are hard to take. If you are deciding to break up with your boyfriend, it will be best to do it nicely. Breakups are hurtful for both. So, keeping this in mind, today we give you 10 ways to be nice while breaking up with your guy.
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Make sure there's distance between both of you before you tell him this, and when you do, make sure it's said in person.
It will be really tempting to avoid that puppy eyes when you tell him this, and that sad face you were once in love with; try not to hug him because let's admit it, hugging can only lead to goodbye sex and that will put you back in the same place.
We know this shall be difficult, but try not to cry while telling him this, it will just send a mixed message with will make things even more confusing.
Make sure he is the first person to know about your decision, not your friends, so you might also forget about changing your relationship status on facebook until you talk to him.
It's useless to get into any arguments at this point of time. So it's better if you just leave.
Instead of going around in circles, keep it to the point.
No matter how bad it gets, do not blame yourself or give any other excuses for the breakup. Keep it real and honest.
Do not make any decision when you are emotional, make sure your decision is made when you are in a calm mind.
Do not tell him your decision over text, phone call, or use any other means of communication for this purpose, meet him and tell him in person
No matter how hard he takes it, make sure you keep the conversation simple.