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IN Lifestyle ON 19 May, 2016
Last night while playing truth and dare, somebody asked me about my first crush. And I could barely answer his question because I don't remember. I was 13 when I got attracted towards someone for the first time. We often have our eyes on someone, but we hesitate to let the cat out of the bag. We neither like to stalk them like a creepy stalker. So what to do?
Scroll down and find the answer yourself. You'll thank me on this.
Touching someone is often seen as a subconscious way of indicating attraction. Touch their shoulders or hands while laughing, shake hands when you meet them. It shows affection and friendliness. And who doesn't like to receive affection?
Ask them about their favorite candy and get it for them. Not often, but once in a blue moon. They will get familiar and relate happiness whenever they see you.
Compliment them genuinely on small little things. Compliment him on the color of his shirt or her hairstyle. Not only they'll feel special about it but will also show that you notice them and have an inkling towards them.
Ask them about their likes and dislikes. Like their favorite restaurants, cuisine and do remember them. You'll surely find few things in common and this will help you to arrange and plan for your date accordingly. You know what, people simply enjoy when you show interest in them.
If you've got an eye on someone, tease them. Make fun of small little things they do. It may be childish, but it works. Tease them gently and they'll find you adorable and want revenge.
If there is an upcoming concert or an event, don't hesitate and ask them to join you, if you're planning to go out with your coworkers or friends. This will make them feel special and you'll be more relaxed with friends around.
Be a good listener. Listen to them patiently and ask things to show them that you're genuinely interested in their talks. Try to give them suggestions on things. He or she will undoubtedly appreciate you.
Don't stare, just look at them for few seconds and look away. This will create a connection between you two. It will not only show that you're friendly and fun, but it'll get them wondering what you're smiling about!
Make sure you look good when you're meeting them. Apply a good cologne which smells good and wear clean and tidy clothes. And most importantly don't forget to wear a smile on your face.
Whatever you're doing, do it with confidence. The way you talk, dress up, sit, smile, walk, you should be confident. Confidence makes you sexy and your crush will find it hard to ignore you. If you aren't confident, fake it!
Even if you don't find their jokes funny, still laugh and giggle with them. This will show that you're appreciating their humor abilities, and they'll get attracted towards you. And you never know, jokes may spark a new conversation.