I'm again warning you, don't read this article. No, please don't read ahead. Don't scroll down. This is your last warning, now if you read ahead, you're on your own. I'll not take any responsibility.
Still wanna read it, okay go ahead.
You were told not to read this article and still reading it. It is a perfect example of reverse psychology and you're victim of it.
Next time when you're feeling underconfident, just pretend you're confident till you gain the experience. It helps you relax and lets you throw your worries away.
It is called Ben Franklin effect. Actually, when you're doing a favor to anyone, you convince yourself that you must like this person.
Because creating an awkward situation will often make people say something to fill up this void, even if it is something that they'd rather not discuss it with you.
Now you know when to ask about his office secretary.
Whether it's a rollercoaster, skiing or hiking. Just to make sure that it brings an exciting rush to her. Because when we do something exciting, our brain releases the chemicals like dopamine and endorphins which are called happy chemicals and make you feel ecstatic, and your date will be like, " My date made me feel so awesome and great."
First ask them to go out for dinner, so even they refuse, they won't be able to refuse your another offer.
It's a technique to keep the optimum amount of eye contact, which people find friendly.
People will automatically part their way to let you through.