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IN Lifestyle ON 05 May, 2016
Women tend to invest a lot into a relationship by putting their heart and soul into it. They trust blindly, care immensely and love recklessly. When you are in love, you don't put yourself first.
I had one friend who trusted him and gave him everything she had. She created her whole world around him; she didn't realize she was living in denial.
Men want a woman who is independent, strong, confident, who knows her worth and knows how to make others respect her. The moment she realizes self-respect, she can evaluate her relationship better and can decide whether the man is worthy of her love.
Here is why women leave men they love, the truth that every man needs to know.
It's true that negatives attract, but you should have some common interests. Common interests help you in making a strong bond. People change and so their interests. If you two transitions over the time, you will be able to relate to things you two enjoyed together which may bring that spark in your relationship again.
Women always need someone to talk to. It's impractical for a guy to be by her side all the time. But, if you absent most of the time you are giving her one less reason to hold on.
Without using words, being physically intimate says a lot of things. If you care about your partner and their needs in bed, they will have an assurance that there is some spark left between you two.
If you are invested into activities that please you and you give her less time, she will feel distorted about her relationship.
They act like a slow-acting poison and kill relationship from the inside. Insecurities project certain negative vibes towards others.
Your relationship is built on the trust you have between you two and lying is not at all acceptable. Eventually, they will find out about the lies and will never see you the same way.
Personal space is very vital for our sanities. We all need some 'me time', a time where we can be ourselves. Our hangouts with friends keep us sane and happy.
Little things matter more than grand gestures. Those who pay attention to little things are the happiest in their lives.
You may hang out with her and go on fancy dinners with her but you are not emotionally available for her, when she needs you, it may damage the relationship. She wants you to be emotional and understanding at the same time.
If you want to change her, you are not in love with her but the idea of her and being the way you want her to be. You should love her for the person she is.
Your time is one of the priceless gifts you can give to someone. When you give your time to someone, you show her how important they are to you.
She may have some flaws and so do you. That doesn't mean you compare her with others. It's a major turn off. Respect her for the person she is.