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9 Painful Stages Every Guy Goes Through After Break Up 

There is always a talk about how girls feel after the breakup and how their men betrayed them.
But, let's look at the other side of it - how does a man feel after the breakup? Often, the sympathy is poured upon the girl after break up but hardly anyone cares about guy's feeling.
Though people assume that men just move on immediately after break up but that's not true because a lot more can happen with them too.

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9 Painful Stages Every Guy Goes Through After Break Up 

9 Painful Stages Every Guy Goes Through After Break Up 

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1. Deep sorrow, heartbreak and disappointment.  

1. Deep sorrow, heartbreak and disappointment.  

When it happens, it's hard to the man too. Regardless of their ability to control emotions, it becomes impossible to resist, and they break down in tears.

2. Try to find out answers of, "why me God, why me?"

2. Try to find out answers of,

After some days, they just start thinking about what went wrong and why it happened to them. Even a thought (and sometimes action) of patching up with ex comes in their thoughts only to end up with a lot more disappointment.

3. They isolate themselves from people. 

3. They isolate themselves from people. 

Like most people, there comes a stage where staying alone is preferred. It takes some time in getting involved with other people. The time may vary from a few weeks to few months! And, deep inside they feel that they need her only.

4. Doesn't matter what is the question, alcohol is the answer!

4. Doesn't matter what is the question, alcohol is the answer!

Drink, Drink and Drink! Men become vociferous drinkers for some days after break up. It just becomes easy to distract from the thoughts about their ex with the help of an old friend - a Beer!

5. The realizations

5. The realizations

After spending some time and going through crests and troughs of emissions, there comes a stage when they think seriously about moving on in life.

6. Flush off and new beginnings

6. Flush off and new beginnings

The first thing to do a new start is to get rid of all the shit that happened previously. Deleting old memories, photos and texts give some relief. Though it sounds simple, it may become hard and take them back to stage one.

7. Hang out with long lost bros...

7. Hang out with long lost bros...

There comes a perfect time when men start enjoying time with their best friends. They do all the stupidity and adventures and unknowingly make a move forward. Spending time with such people gives a boost to their new beginnings in life.

8. Life always gives you a second chance as well as choice.

8. Life always gives you a second chance as well as choice.

Now they start stalking girls on social media. They start enjoying the new phase of life and again start looking for their best match.

9. Good things fall apart so that better things can fall in place.

9. Good things fall apart so that better things can fall in place.

Finally, there comes a moments when they get their loved one. Perhaps, the best one.

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