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9 Most Important Things You Must Know Before Having Sex With Her

So you've been dating this girl for a while, and you've probably gone to the 2nd level already. Now you're thinking, how should I take the step further? Because the next step is obviously very risky and you need to think twice before making your move. 

Will she mind? Is this too early? Will she dismiss me? Or will she think I'm a pervert and dump me?  Your mind is racing with these queries, but if you're feeling confused, you can contemplate on these few questions which would make your mind relatively clear

So if she's also on the same page as you, you would know soon enough. 

9 Most Important Things You Must Know Before Having Sex With Her

9 Most Important Things You Must Know Before Having Sex With Her

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If you're not taking the correct steps, you might even ruin your relationship. 

If you're not taking the correct steps, you might even ruin your relationship. 

So make sure you correctly analyze the situation and read the inidications before 'jumping' into the bed. 

1. If she trusts you. 

1. If she trusts you. 

There are some subtle signs to tell if a woman trusts you. She trusts you with her purse or other stuff. Which basically means, she doesn't flinch every time you touch her or she makes eye contact often. Her arms aren't crossed while speaking to you and you can actually tell that she's comfortable around you physically. 

2. Her body language isn't restricted. 

2. Her body language isn't restricted. 

She's sort of open when it comes to being around you. She doesn't mind the slight brushing of the hands while eating or walking. She would probably even touch your arm while laughing at your joke. Basically, she's comfortable around you. 

3. Her legs aren't crossed when she speaks to you. 

3. Her legs aren't crossed when she speaks to you. 

Keeping her legs crossed clearly means that she's trying to avoid intimacy. It's blocking conversation because you're not really interested in speaking to the other person. So if she's crossing her legs in front of you way too much, consider this as a 'no' sign. 

4. If she makes eye contact with you. 

4. If she makes eye contact with you. 

Eye contact is a sure sign of showing interest in a person. It also means that she's confident when she speaks to you and all these things indicate a green light sign. 

5. Make sure you have gone to at least 2nd base before getting into the bedroom. 

5. Make sure you have gone to at least 2nd base before getting into the bedroom. 

Suddenly jumping to sex won't do any good. Try to make her feel special and not just an object of sex. If you actually like this girl and are thinking of having a future with her, make sure you treat her right. 

6. Be prepared for your relationship to change after the sex. 

6. Be prepared for your relationship to change after the sex. 

Every relationship strenthens with physical intimacy, so be prepared for more openness in your relationship. Also, be prepared for further commitment in the relationship because she might be expecting that. 

7. Don't make it too awkward. 

7. Don't make it too awkward. 

After your special night, don't make things too awkward the next morning. Be yourself and make her feel more comfortable in your presence. 

8. Brace yourself for these things lying around in your apartment often. 

8. Brace yourself for these things lying around in your apartment often. 

Yeah she takes a note of everything.

9. Be prepared for countless text messages. 

9. Be prepared for countless text messages. 

Once a female is comfortable with you, she'll probably want to tell you what she's doing every second of everyday. That's not being too obsessive or nosy, that's just how females work. So be prepared for unnecessary gossip about her co-workers or random ramblings about her pet dog. 

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