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IN Lifestyle ON 14 Apr, 2016
People have changed and so have their emotions. Modernization has led to the difference in relationships involving people as well. People no longer see relationships as an emotional commitment or a way to be connected to another person.
Relationships have become less meaningful and more relating to personal motives and greed. Most people are in relationships because of a status symbol or because of another intention. That's the effect of modernization.
Let's check out the wrong in today's relationships.
Relationships have really started to decline when you know an animal could be better suited for you as compared to a partner.
The relationship seriously has some problem when it lacks in intimacy, but at the same time, every update is made on social media sites.
With the entry of websites like Twitter, Facebook and Instagram, interacting online has become a boon as well as a curse.
A relationship that runs just on the basis of buying materialistic pleasures for one another without any emotional involvement is not really a relationship.
A little change and adjustment are just fine. But don't change or try to change somebody to an extent that they lose their real personality.
Although, you are entitled to some space in a relationship but that doesn't mean you should hide important pieces of information from your partner. A relationship should be dependent upon honesty and loyalty.
Technology like cellphones and laptops were invented to make work easier for humans but soon, we started replacing real relationships with these technological gadgets.
Instead of living and enjoying the moment we're in, we tend to rely on technology to capture everything around us and announce our recent updates to everyone.
People in relationships feel more secure with status update confirmations rather than discussing their feelings in private. So a status update is a better confirmation of love than actually saying 'I love you.'
We are so busy checking our cellphones, tablets, and laptops, that we don't care about our company. Rather, the person on text gets more attention and the person sitting in front of us, doesn't.
In today's lives, we like to post everything up on social media. Our dog pictures, new car pictures, things we eat and even when we go to poop. Lives aren't private anymore.
Relationships are no longer private because people can't keep feelings to themselves. Rather than discussing problems with their partner, they rely on other people who in turn, try to mess up the relationship.
People have a set of 'types' they want in a relationship and without even looking at the personality, everything is judged on the basis of looks, income or status of the person.
Share if you agree and want to change this.