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IN Lifestyle ON 16 Mar, 2016
The ones who have crossed the bridge, know that when it comes to wooing a girl, "signs" play a vital role. When it comes to impressing a girl, you are the performer on stage and the girl is the equivalent of an audience. A performer on stage doesn't know if he is doing well until he gets a feedback from the audience. Same thing applies here, except in this case, the feedback is not a direct one. It is in the form of signs, non-verbal cues and can only be interpreted if one is an expert at reading the body language.
So, if you aren't sure if she is into you or it's just another case of one-sided love (in that case, *my condolences*), check out the following tips that will make you an expert at reading the female body language:
Out of all the signs, this one is a dead giveaway. If you see her touching her hair or playing with it while conversing, in all probability, she is into you.
Look for the signs of nervousness. If she screws up or makes a minor mistake, observe her body language. If she is nervous and self-conscious at that instant, you are in the green zone.
If her looks are passionate, warming and welcoming, she might be into you.
If her entire body seems to shift away from you, the moment you approach her, she wants to avoid you at all costs. That's it- isn't it rocket science.
This sign is misunderstood quite often. Just because she is touching you doesn't mean that she wants to get laid with you. It just means that she is comfortable around you and wants to know you more.
One of the most important non-verbal queues is that if she doesn't make eye contact with you or looks away when you approach her, in all probability, she in not into you,
If she checks her phone while talking to you, or is distracted by minor things, you are not that interesting.
If she leans on you, then in all probability, she is convinced that you are the one for her. She trusts you completely and confides in you when she needs it the most.