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IN Lifestyle ON 17 Feb, 2016
In today's era, every broad-minded person searches for a mate or a partner to be in relationship with. It may be a person with whom there is a relationship or just a crush, each one of them have their merits and demerits. But yes, I can say one thing that being in a relationship is far better than having just a crush.
When you text to a person who is your liking, you might think a number of times before saying even Hi! But as the time passes and when you come in a relationship with the person, the things like- what to text, when to text and more don't matter anymore.
In beginning, when you go on a date or for a first casual meet you want everything up to the mark. After all the first impression is the last and you don't want to leave a single chance to impress the boy you are fond of. But after relationship you seriously don't care much that how you look.
Physical contact with crush and with your girlfriend or boyfriend marks a lot of difference. Earlier with your crush you think about every move that you made but in a relationship thinking changes and almost everything becomes acceptable.
When the person is still a crush and after leaving a party, you wish to get laid but you are unable to point that thing out or you don't get a way to say that you want to get laid. But if it's a relationship then it's just a matter of asking the partner.
The morning after getting laid becomes awkward for the crush ones and many things might run through their minds as still the person doesn't know his or her crush well. But in a serious relationship you just stop caring.
Watching movie with a crush may leave you with silly blank faces. And in a relationship you just need to book tickets and go with that.
Asking a crush to leave the party may leave you in a cautious state. But if you are in a relationship, it's just a matter of asking as now you know your relationship partner very well so mutual understanding works well.
When you date with your crush you ask and plan everything. You become alert about what all things you do during dating. But in a relationship, you just know what is best for your partner and mutually things go well.