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IN People ON 12 Feb, 2016
This is a very relatable thing for most of us, because we have been kept on the hook once in our lives. It's a place where you really want to be with that person, but he/she sees you only as an option, and not a priority. You are literally begging for this person to have you, love you like you do, but that won't happen. For them, you are just a stand by. So, instead of waiting till they find their priority and kick you out, maybe you should end things first. If you are not sure of whether you are on a stand by or not, these signs might help. Check them out!
You make plans at the last minute, it's like you're forcefully invited.
Even when they know what your plans are way in advance, you're invited at the last minute.
You cancel all your your other plans so that you are free for them.
And, then you regret wasting your night on them.
They will not take you out to the special occassions, like weddings.
Even if they are seeing someone else, they will still keep you on the hook.
They will bail on you on all the things that are important for you.
You will always get late replies from them.
It is you who is trying to make it work.
You are expected to answer all the calls, but that is not applicable to them.
They will never fully accept you.
You end up making excuses for them.
If you try to stand up for yourself, they blame you for being needy.