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12 Signs Tell That You're An Option, Not A Priority

This is a very relatable thing for most of us, because we have been kept on the hook once in our lives. It's a place where you really want to be with that person, but he/she sees you only as an option, and not a priority. You are literally begging for this person to have you, love you like you do, but that won't happen. For them, you are just a stand by. So, instead of waiting till they find their priority and kick you out, maybe you should end things first. If you are not sure of whether you are on a stand by or not, these signs might help. Check them out!

12 Signs Tell That You're An Option, Not A Priority

12 Signs Tell That You're An Option, Not A Priority

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Last minute plan

Last minute plan

You make plans at the last minute, it's like you're forcefully invited.

2. Even after knowing your plans before hand

2. Even after knowing your plans before hand

Even when they know what your plans are way in advance, you're invited at the last minute.

3. You cancel your other plans

3. You cancel your other plans

You cancel all your your other plans so that you are free for them.

4. And, then you regret it

4. And, then you regret it

And, then you regret wasting your night on them.

4. They will not make you feel important

4. They will not make you feel important

They will not take you out to the special occassions, like weddings.

6. They will never let go of you

6. They will never let go of you

Even if they are seeing someone else, they will still keep you on the hook.

They'll bail on you

They'll bail on you

They will bail on you on all the things that are important for you.

8. They won't text you

8. They won't text you

You will always get late replies from them.

9. You put all the efforts

9. You put all the efforts

It is you who is trying to make it work.

10. They don't asnwer your call

10. They don't asnwer your call

You are expected to answer all the calls, but that is not applicable to them.

"We Can't Be Together Right Now"

"We Can't Be Together Right Now"

They will never fully accept you.

12. Making excuses

12. Making excuses

You end up making excuses for them.

12. You can't stand up for yourself

12. You can't stand up for yourself

If you try to stand up for yourself, they blame you for being needy.

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