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IN Lifestyle ON 09 Feb, 2016
I saw a beautiful boy, four months ago. I had no high hopes of falling in love or us ticking instantly. I thought that was too fairy-delish, too perfect and thus too impossible. I gave it a chance, met him, and we started chatting. A few meetings and before I knew it, he was my best friend more than he was anything. I loved his company, and I couldn’t get enough of him. I had never felt this close to anyone in my life; it was quite surprising to see my own self-opening up to someone I had just started filling time with. It was all unexpected, and finally, I realized how much I am into him.
Soon, all my plans were beginning to revolve around him. Whether it was an issue at the workplace or just something that was bothering me, he was my go-to person, and I was him. That’s when we realised what partnership meant, what real love meant. True love admittedly meant being the best of mates in the journey of life.
This time is surely the best time of my trip.
Love is all about friendship than something else and here are a few words that will help you understand that your partner is truly your best friend.
You were sitting somewhere and suddenly a random thought strike after seeing something funny, and you and your mate just look at each other and laugh enormously. This is what bonding is. Only real friends know this, and if you are true friends with your partner, you would instantly click what I mean to say.
This is when you both have the same crazy flare. You two are proud of experiencing it, and you don't consider how the world sees you both because the entire thing that values is what you consider about each other and if you two are happy, you'll be proud of it. No matter how silly and insane, it might resemble everybody else.
I know he must be reading all these, and I know he can't stay mad at me for a long time, although he loves me. Well, that's my part, but you know, fights are just small things that we later laugh about together. These are the moments that will make you fall in love even more and harder than ever.
Thinking of the past few days, when have you smiled the most? What are the times for all these days that you admire and love the most? If they include your partner, then you are one of the few people who have found their best friend in their partners. If you can smile about things together, discuss deep and meaningful conversation as well, then you are surely destined.
Possibly, there might be a lot of friends and relatives you share things with, but there will always be one man you listen to when you need a bit of advice. If your boyfriend is that person, you have got a best friend in them. Whether it's picture or clothes that you want to get or see, you trust your partner that they have a solution for this as well. If your lover does this, you are one lucky person in a million.
Whether it's a new place or any new cuisine, you can't really plan it with anyone else. It has to be your companion. Even if you go ahead and do go out with some of your buddies, the whole time you miss them and wish they were there with you so that you both can either enjoy the food and later laugh about something you know they would have hated. Above all, you miss their presence.
If you also miss their presence in each and everything, and you just can't get over them, this is the sign that you have a perfect friend too, who can solve your problems and all you have to do is to nap on their lap. Later, this world also starts to seem beautiful. And whether they know it or not, express them what you feel for them and also that, "you are my world."