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IN Lifestyle ON 27 Jan, 2016
Breakups are always difficult. But during the initial period of the breakup, there are certain boundaries set up and certain rules to be followed. Guys won't admit it, but they have feelings too and if they're letting you go with dignity, they expect the same.
Some girls will resort to post relationship drama. Whether it is to annoy the hell out of their ex or just to feel better temporarily, but these things should be avoided. Here are 6 worst things girls during a break up.
Even in normal circumstances, girls tend to gossip way too much. But during a breakup, they make it their agenda to make up nasty stuff about their ex in order to embarrass him in front of everyone.
No matter what a girl does after a breakup, shouldn't affect a guy. But if she's hooking up with one of his friends, then it's his business. Don't try to hook up with his friends just to get back at him.
By updating passive aggressive status messages or posting rude comments on any of his posts.
A breakup clearly means that you two aren't together and you should respect that and back off. Trying to keep a tab on his every move, stalking him or asking your friends about what he's been doing all day won't work.
Some men will sincerely admit to their mistakes and want to apologize. It took a lot of guts to own up to their mistakes and the least you can do is forgive him. Even if it's hurting presently or you don't agree with his methods, at least, he tried to make an effort to apologize to you.
Girls try to deflect and blame everything on the guy. Well, it could be his fault but the relationship ended from both sides so probably you did something wrong as well. There's no point trying to deflect. Try to sort out matters in a peaceful manner.
But if you and your ex want to handle it in a mature way, you'll will have to be civil towards each other even after the separation.