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IN People ON 17 Jan, 2016
If you are emotionally available for your partner then you are not in a relationship at all. Being there for someone at their hard times is the most important factor to be fulfilled whilst being in a relationship with someone. Here are are six signs which will help you to identify whether your partner is emotionally unavailable to you.
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Emotionally unavailable people are more often to give mixed signals, and they seem to care less about emotions and feelings. Those people tend to keep more practical approach to the relationship. One day, they will behave like its all about you and the other day, they won't even bother to care less.
They seem to think about themselves the first. Even though they are in a relationship, they'll think about themselves and make decisions without consulting you. It's okay to put yourselves first but in a relationship, you have to take the decisions together.
You don't make love but just satisfy each other. You don't feel the way you should and they get annoyed if you stay even though they asked you to.
They may have trouble committing at times. Not being ready is not as same as emotionally unavailable. It's time to move on when you don't feel that you both are on the same page. .
They are emotionally distant and can't connect to you at a sane emotional level, which makes it difficult to understand them and read them.