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Men do want more than "just $ex". And they are desperate for women to know the truth. Men don't want to hurt their woman, but also want them to know that they want more. They are emotional and they do feel the need of support emotionally.
The truth is, men lie about themselves, their feelings. They do too feel soft but never accept it or the better way, they will not allow women to know about it. They don't want to show their weakness. Better put they don't know how will their woman feel about it.
The truth of all fact lies in this finger. Pinky finger is packed with power many females choose to ignore. That is so tender and soft due to which men don't even ask for it. As men don't want to appear soft they don't talk about it.
These are the real examples. Try imagining their voice of vulnerability and trying to sound "strong" while they speak.
* Oklahoma: "She said, thank you brought me here to movies." * Alberta: "She called me 'stud' and spanked me." *UK: "She caressed back of my head. Felt soo good." * Turkey: "She complimented me and said, you're such a good father. I love you." * Jordan: "She said she loves me when I told her about better vacation plan." * New Zealand: "She scratched softly back of my head as I drove."
Women think it's silly and not manly enough. They might laugh at their words and make fun of what they believe. Their cold touch or their explanations about anything might make you judge them
Jonalyn Grace Fincher in her article, "I Am the Patriarchy", listed 16 shining examples of how women refuse to let men be vulnerable. We beg men to let us in and want them to tell us when they are afraid. What most women don't know is that just reading this list can make a grown man cry. These things are not what men mostly talk about. 16 examples are : 1. My husband doesn't say anything when I have to do manual labor. 2. Avoid eye contact. 3. Taking over when he fumbles. 4. Assuming his emotional absence is normal. 5. Showing embarrassment when he's afraid. 6. Expecting him to shoulder the hardest work without complaining. 7. Never asking him what he's afraid of. 8. Expecting him to tolerate criticism. 9. Growing quickly impatient when he doesn't do well the job. 10. Becoming cold when he asks for help. 11. Knowing our girlfriend's needs more than our men. 12. Hiding his mistakes from our kids. 13. Expect him to have more strength. 14. Expect him to do everything without a word complain. 15. Expect him to do something unpleasant even though he doesn't wants to. 16. Expect him to encounter every scary voice in the house.
For the Women: Inspire and built confidence in your man because that's the best you can do to him. You have got more influential and powerful role to play than you think. For the Men: Her approval of her love and acceptance is a lot more than $ex she offered you. Don't be ashamed of your needs and vulnerability. Be free to ask and admit that you want pinky power, without fear and hesitation.