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IN Lifestyle ON 12 Jan, 2016
There are two types of relationships - ones with a future, and those without one. And speaking of future, some relationships are so beautifully perfect that they survive the test of time, and even enter into the auspicious bond of marriage. But the decision of whether or not the partner is worth stepping into marriage with, can, in some cases, be a tough call.
So here are a few simple characteristics that can help a lady assess if her man is marriage material or not. Check them out!
Does he remember those little details of your taste? Does he pay attention to what you like, and what you don't? And if not, does he at least try, and get even a few of them right? Well, if he does, be sure that he simply loves to see you smile.
So here's the deal: if your guy is not just in love with you, but in love with your entire personality, well, you're made for him and he's made for you!
Does he realize the importance of being transparent with you? Does he keep no secrets from you (well, surprises can be excluded from here, of course!)? Is he comfortable sharing his property such as phone and laptop with you? Putting it all together, does he have no secrets altogether? Well then, it does seem quite obvious what conclusion is to be reached, right?
Is he one of those guys who's always funny when you're with him? Is he one of those guys who can do anything just to make you laugh? Well, if that's your guy, then there's nothing much to think about really!
Does he not force his opinions on you? Does he suggest ways you can change, mostly for the better, but yet, loves you just the way you are? Well then, he's definitely a keeper!
Well, if he is, then you can be sure that he's serious about the relationship. Signs of hesitation in taking your relationship out in the public need not necessarily mean that he's not as serious about the relationship as you'd thought. He could have other reasons too. But when he's totally cool with taking your relationship out there in the public, there can be no second thought about how seriously he wants to be with you!
Is he one of those guys who keeps clinging on to you all the time, not giving you any space, and even being detrimental to your other social relationships, plans and decisions? Well, that's not the kind of guy you'll want to be with. But if he's exactly not any of the above mentioned, then there should be no reason to hold back!
When your guy is sensitive and emotional, there should be no reason for you to not take the big step with him! If he loves you, and does not forget to express it just the right amount, well... he's the whole package then!
Does he do everything in his power to make you feel special? And better yet, do you feel special just by the way he's with you? Well, that should ease up your decision-making process, shouldn't it?
Does he make an effort to share your works and put you at ease? Does he try to revitalize the dynamic between the two of you by planning and doing little things every now and then? Does he try to avoid fights? Does he try to wrap up a fight and get past it as early as possible? Put all together, does he value your relationship? If yes, then stop thinking! And just go for it! He's definitely your man!