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IN Lifestyle ON 10 Jan, 2016
Ladies, ladies, ladies, give me an ear. Most of you probably wonder what is it about a girl that turns a guy on, but probably you have never given as much thought to what turns him off. Well, some things do.
Now a woman might not be able to point out what exactly turns a man off since she isn't as much a man, but in the shoes of a bro, here is how I see it and you can rest assured, this is one hundred percent true.
Here is a little list of what you shouldn't do in order to keep him interested!
Because let's face it, a man does not want the world to know all about him. You sharing your relationship to a certain extent with your friends is a good thing, but if you go on telling others about his problems or anxieties, he is sure not going to like it. He tells you about it because he trusts you and likes sharing it with you. Not to make it the talk of the town.
When a man is in some problem, he tends to keep that inside cage. Anyone attacking that cage or trying to break in, even the woman he loves, is going to annoy him. So do not interfere in his matters or try suggesting him solutions when he hasn't asked you for any. Let him fend his own way, let him be a man.
Any person's foremost task is working for something, in a certain direction. Work, and satisfactory work at that, raises a man's self-esteem. If you are going to interfere when he is working, he is sure going to flip and the blame will always be on you.
Never humiliate a man. Nor in public, neither in private. He has some dreams, some aspirations and moreover, he has this immense self-respect about himself. If the woman he loves the most laughs at him for all that he is or treats him like trash, he sure is going to want to leave your sight, and go look for some solitude instead.
A woman can be possessive about a man, and he will, in fact, find it cute that she is, however, if you are going to be too protective of him and are going to restrict him from talking to other women, it is going to explode in a really, really bad manner. Take care, you.