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IN Lifestyle ON 27 Nov, 2015
At first the kiss was small, but then it grew bigger; lips pressing against each other, and then more intense. Well, this is what everyone wants, making intense love full of passion with the bodies coming together, for eternity. Kiss is the first move, and you should at least know how to make your first move seducing your lover, making the bed sizzle. Here is how you can have an intense kiss, if you are a guy.
You've got this, so there is nothing to worry about. Don't shy away from her, mumble or refuse to meet her gaze.
If your look is as appealing as possible, you won't have to work hard to convince her that you are worth a kiss. Keep mints in handy, pop one whenever you feel your breath is stale.
Many girls or women would not feel comfortable having a kiss publicly, especially if it is their first kiss.
Watch carefully, because signals can be quite confusing. She might lick her lips or the lower lip while looking at you or she might find excuses to touch you. If you are confident about that, make your move.
She is ready, if she is comfortable and does not look away. Lock eyes when she is talking to you, in the moments of silence or when you are taking to her.
Starting with a small physical contact tells her what is coming and gives her chance to back out if she is uncomfortable. You can put your arm around her shoulders, hold her hand or sweep her hair away from her face.
Reach around her waist with one or both the arms and gently draw her towards you. If she is interested, she will get a hint and move in. If you feel her resist though, back off.
One she is close and you are sure she wants to be kissed, that is cue. Look into her eyes and let her know, you are really seeing her. Look at her lips. Lean in slowly, brush you lips against her. Don't worry about a fancy technique, you can deal it in later kisses.
Your mouth should not be overtly opened or closed, not too mushy or too tight. Make it last till 10 seconds or so, not too short, say 3 seconds or not too long (20 seconds).