There is a thing about human interaction, we care about acquiring each others trust and appraisal and every good thing. And for that, we are often dishonest and pretend to be something else. Then, once we have what we want, our true colors show. Gradually with time, it makes things highly contrasting, if the time lag of comparison is large enough.
These depictions show a similar contrast from the gentler gender's perspective in a hilarious series of 1st date against 21st date graphics.
BTW it takes several hours for those tasks, with girls.
Anyway, if the date goes well, it's gonna come off, and if it doesn't, then it won't matter.
And over again.
And not just the scar.