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Losing virginity has always been seen as a taboo subject. Be it with the correct age or be it with the gender, people across the world are carrying enough misconceptions and superstitions about this word. People actually think it's okay to have a say in someone else's life. What they do or what they don't, is not of anyone's concern.
By gender, I meant that virginity of a girl is seen by many as a pristine thing to lose before marriage. Men are always seen as the more precarious ones when it comes to losing their virginity. It's an unsaid thing in our society but all of us know it to be true. I will say that it should always be left to an individual to make their life choices. One can not force or even judge a person on the basis their personal life decisions. However, there are certain things that virgin girls should keep in mind.
You may end up with a guy who will give you enough reasons to do it without a condom. They might be very convincing about it and you might think so too. But, even if it feels better without one, condom ensures prevention against STDs and lesser chances of pregnancy.
Queefing is very rare in the case of a virgin girl. The reason behind this is that the vaginal cavity is still very tight and has no air waiting inside it to come out. Even if it does, it is normal and not at all a point to feel embarrassed about.
A lot many guys are often confused about the target they have to get in. It can be very painful for a girl to take it inside into a wrong target. So make it sure to guide him into the right one to keep it hassle-free.
As the place loses its tight nature, it will gradually get easier to use the tampons.
A 20 minutes of foreplay can get it wet easily. But, when doing it for the first time, you might not get wet due to fear or any other feeling. This situation will need a lubricant to make it pain-free to some extent.
Do not rush through the whole thing as it can give you a bitter experience. Make sure that your partner respects the fact that you are a virgin and you need it to be slow. Also, do not forget to keep a towel below you to keep the process clean. Share and comment!