On 13-May-2017 In Inspiration
Today, you’re going to read about a family that stays in The Colony, Texas. A family of five which was soon going to turn into 6. It did, but an unfortunate event of death just after five days made the family count back to five. The male head of Aulger family, who was a father to four kids and another one on its way, was suffering from Cancer. The good part was that Mark Aulger recovered with the help of chemotherapy but in the process, he lost another vital organ of the body - lungs. Because of this very reason, Mark couldn’t survive long after going through cancer’s treatment. During this whole time, his wife Diane was expecting another baby. Both the parents wanted that before Mark passes away, he’s able to see the face of his child. You can’t control one’s life or save anyone you want to, but what Diane did is commendable. This is what she did:
When Mark was diagnosed with the lung disease and was told that he doesn’t have much long to live, Diane decided to induce labor two weeks before the normal due date, just so that the daughter they were going to have is able to see his father’s face.
The doctors told Mark that he has now fully recovered from cancer. But, days after on January 3 when he was unable to breathe, he walked into the hospital for a checkup. Though he had won over Cancer, there was something deadlier waiting for Mark to witness.
Mark had undergone chemotherapy for eight months, and that affected his lungs adversely. Pulmonary Fibrosis meant that his lungs were scarred which made it difficult for him to breathe.Yet the family held on to positivity and thought that steroids would turn out to be a great help to him.
Like any family, the Aulger’s also thought that with the help of steroids he'd be able to live much longer. Sadly, he couldn’t buy time even with the aid of steroids.
A few days later, doctors told 52-year-old Mark that he only had a week more to live, on January 16.
"He would talk to my stomach when I was pregnant, He was so excited for her.” said Diane Aulger according to ABC News. In Diane’s words, the coming child was going to be 'the ray of sunshine in our sorrow'.
Well, the decision was taken and on January 18 their beautiful daughter Savannah was born. The mother’s wish had finally come true but what followed was never desired by her or the family.
Mark was the first one to hold the new-born. Diane recalled, “He held her for 45 minutes. Him and I just cried that whole time.”
The next day, Mark couldn’t hold on to life for much longer. He could only hold his daughternfor a minute and passed into a coma.
Of the four kids, one of them asked their mother, “Is Dad asleep?” to which Diane couldn’t think of much to say and replied, “No, he's in a coma”.
Seeing the elder sibling, the mother was asked another question, "Is he going to make it?" by the 8-year-old. After listening to NO as mother’s reply, the poor kid could do nothing but shouted: “I'm not going to have a daddy."
Although, Mark was still partially aware of what’s going around and as Diane says that Mark would shake his head and moan, on her cries.
The entire Aulger family was there surrounding the hospital bed. And, before Mr. Aulger’s death, the new born Savannah was kept in his arms.
“His heart rate started to drop and his breathing started to drop, so I put her in his arms and held his hand until he died. It was like his lungs were soaked in concrete. They couldn't inhale, they couldn't pass oxygen to the rest of his body. So he in essence suffocated to death.” Said Mrs. Aulger